My mother and stepdad are ESTJs. We don't really get along but we don't not get along either. We're just kinda "there" in each other's presence. With other ESTJs I find it extremely difficult to stomach being around them without wanting to tackle them down and start wringing their necks. At least to me, ESTJs are very irritating to deal with and often press all the right buttons to piss me off in social situations. I think they can be very nice...I just prefer to be around other types, usually.