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    I am an ISFJ

    Welcome to the forums.
    YAY! I'm not a loner here
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    Welcome. Beautiful avatar.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lauren Ashley View Post
    Welcome. Beautiful avatar.
    Thank you very much! I very much appreciate that
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    Welcome. I would enjoy talking with other ISFJ when I have the time. I personally have the gift of stating the obvious and love sharing that gift! lol.

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    Hi there! I am a fellow ISFJ and I'm sure Giggly will be around at some point. She's a wonderful ISFJ. My INFP husband got me involved in all of this too! He's now onto other things, but I found it fascinating enough to stick around. Welcome! There doesn't seem to be many of us here, but our numbers are growing! I'm looking forward to getting to know you!

    And yes, Giggly and I do love our Max.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ayoitsStepho View Post
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    Welcome. I would enjoy talking with other ISFJ when I have the time. I personally have the gift of stating the obvious and love sharing that gift! lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lambchop View Post
    Hi there! I am a fellow ISFJ and I'm sure Giggly will be around at some point. She's a wonderful ISFJ. My INFP husband got me involved in all of this too! He's now onto other things, but I found it fascinating enough to stick around. Welcome! There doesn't seem to be many of us here, but our numbers are growing! I'm looking forward to getting to know you!

    And yes, Giggly and I do love our Max.
    Oh I do need to ask since you seem to be right up my alley! I have like too many questions to ask concerning INFP's. My best guy friend is one [the one i was talk about] and he has this thing where he's constantly trying to know more about me...dig into my core so to speak. He's open up greatly to me, only because he trusts me to a great extent. Does your husband do this? What things have you noticed of him to be typical INFP? I applogize for all the questions, i've just been so curious!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ayoitsStepho View Post
    Oh I do need to ask since you seem to be right up my alley! I have like too many questions to ask concerning INFP's. My best guy friend is one [the one i was talk about] and he has this thing where he's constantly trying to know more about me...dig into my core so to speak. He's open up greatly to me, only because he trusts me to a great extent. Does your husband do this? What things have you noticed of him to be typical INFP? I applogize for all the questions, i've just been so curious!
    I was reading some of your other posts and I think we have quite a bit in common.

    I think INFPs are in a constant quest to know themselves better and to understand the whole around them. My INFP took FOREVER to open up to me, but once he realized he could trust me...he did. He's very open with me now. Part of his wanting me to get into MBTI I think...was because we had a hard time understanding where the other was coming from. There is a big difference in the way the world is viewed between and SJ and an NP! For example, he tends to be very abstract in his though process. I am more concrete. He is busy thinking about the possibilities in a situation, where I am trying to nail down what to do and when to do it. He's very laid back and easy going (he can be terrible with day to day stuff like paying bills and housework and car maintenance, etc), where as I am organized and good at writing lists and getting things done daily that need done. He is very non-judgemental of other people (and of me.) He loves to do things for other people and has a genuine heart of gold. However, he lacks assertiveness. That alone can drive me nuts sometimes. I have to FORCE him to communicate with me. And he gets a little uncomfortable when I extend my assertiveness. (Although I tell him to get over it! HA!) He really likes to do things on his own time and in his own way. He is not deadline driven like I am. He is a bit eccentric and wants to be seen as unique. He's bad at procrastination too! I am much more organized and "get it done." He can be a bit headstrong and stubborn sometimes about things that seem illogical to me. He is very critical of himself (like we are of ourselves!). He likes his own space...but can be a little needy and clingy sometimes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lambchop View Post
    I was reading some of your other posts and I think we have quite a bit in common.

    I think INFPs are in a constant quest to know themselves better and to understand the whole around them. My INFP took FOREVER to open up to me, but once he realized he could trust me...he did. He's very open with me now. Part of his wanting me to get into MBTI I think...was because we had a hard time understanding where the other was coming from. There is a big difference in the way the world is viewed between and SJ and an NP! For example, he tends to be very abstract in his though process. I am more concrete. He is busy thinking about the possibilities in a situation, where I am trying to nail down what to do and when to do it. He's very laid back and easy going (he can be terrible with day to day stuff like paying bills and housework and car maintenance, etc), where as I am organized and good at writing lists and getting things done daily that need done. He is very non-judgemental of other people (and of me.) He loves to do things for other people and has a genuine heart of gold. However, he lacks assertiveness. That alone can drive me nuts sometimes. I have to FORCE him to communicate with me. And he gets a little uncomfortable when I extend my assertiveness. (Although I tell him to get over it! HA!) He really likes to do things on his own time and in his own way. He is not deadline driven like I am. He is a bit eccentric and wants to be seen as unique. He's bad at procrastination too! I am much more organized and "get it done." He can be a bit headstrong and stubborn sometimes about things that seem illogical to me. He is very critical of himself (like we are of ourselves!). He likes his own space...but can be a little needy and clingy sometimes.
    Wow, that just knocked my INFP on the head. lol.
    The only difference I see is that my friend will always try to communicate with me. In fact, if there's a problem he pushes me to talk about it so we can get over come it. He most deffinatley can be needy and clingy as well, but I dont find it too much of a problem only because I know that I've earned that spot and nobody else can really take that easily.
    Oh! I do want to ask a few more questions. [this is so fun lol]

    -Does your husband ever fantasize? Like he's in this dreamy world where he just wants to talk about emotions?

    -Does he find it more attractive to be persued? I know my friend wants a girl who will persue him. More like, he's the mouse and she's the cat.

    -Does he get hurt easily or missunderstand your statements as something against him?
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