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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
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    I'm trying to understand exactly what value was violated here. No one-night-stands? Sleeping with someone who's had past relationships?

    Or is it just because he happened to know the ex, and for some reason you aren't allowed to sleep with the ex of someone you know? (he didn't specify whether this guy is his friend or not)
    He felt he had broken his loyalty. Because of that he felt he was irresponsible. They go against the principles of an ISTJ.
    Why he broke his loyalty?

    Your friend breaks up with a girl
    Your friend hates that girl
    You sleep with the girl
    Your friend feels betrayed
    You broke your loyalty
    Your friend hates you

    Is that right Dizzy?

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    right! 100%

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    Katsuki, I get it. Well, now that I know the guy is his friend anyway.Still, they didn't just break up. Its been two years.


    Quote Originally Posted by Dizzy View Post
    I know her ex, he's a friend of friends, know him pretty well, meet him every other week on these parties. I know the both of them since they are apart. I know since they broke up they still met occasionally, but that has ended for as far as I know.
    Anyway just got this text message: lost my best friend (her), she is not slut you can take whenever you feel like it...
    PFff
    Unfortunately for him, he has no say in any of it. If there are unresolved issues let him take it up with her. The woman is not his propriety.



    Edited to add: I guess what makes all the difference for me is whether or not me and the other guy were really friends. I didn't understand the issue at first because I didn't get you guys were actually friends.

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    thanks for the replies, writing 'bout it helps.
    still feel bad though...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dizzy View Post
    I know her ex, he's a friend of friends, know him pretty well, meet him every other week on these parties. I know the both of them since they are apart. I know since they broke up they still met occasionally, but that has ended for as far as I know.
    Anyway just got this text message: lost my best friend (her), she is not slut you can take whenever you feel like it...
    PFff
    I'm confused.

    You lost your best friend? How does this best friend fit into the situation?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dizzy View Post
    Anyway just got this text message: lost my best friend (her), she is not slut you can take whenever you feel like it...
    PFff
    To be fair, she was the one insisting that you'd come inside and stay the night, right? You guys are equally bad. It's unfair of your friend (male) to only put the blame/shame on you. Granted, I don't know if he's punishing her the way he's punishing you. If he's not, maybe he's not over her. Which would put things in perspective.

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    Also, personally, I think it's only fair that your friend (male) should get over himself a bit. I mean, they are broken up. She's fair game. I know you guys are friends, and there a code or whatever. And it it's a bit tacky to hook up with your friends ex. Bit still, he can't be completely pissed at you, as if you had slept with his girlfriend.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MacGuffin View Post
    I'm confused.

    You lost your best friend? How does this best friend fit into the situation?
    no he says he lost his best friend (meaning the his ex girlfriend), because now he doesn't want to see her anymore

    aii

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    I personally think it was fucked up and disrespectful for you to disclose someone else's (the girl) sex life, by telling your friends what happened.

    Lol, no one is even asking about how she took all this.

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    You fucked up? Yeah, happens all the time. Welcome to humanity.

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