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    Senior Member Saslou's Avatar
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    Default SJ's and dating types

    This may of been done already .. Apologies if so.

    If you could date any type, which would you choose and why?

    Have you found yourself compatible with a type you shouldn't really be compatible with?
    After all people are just people with different life experiences.

    Curious ..
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    I think ISTJ and INTJ are those who attracts me more than any other type.

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    Hmm

    ESFJ, ISFP, maybe try an ENFP or INFJ and ESFP as long as they are not toooooo P and too all over the place etc.

    I like the F's in general.

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    Ideally I wanted to be with an ISxP. However, my boyfriend is an ENTJ and we get along very well. Edit: I don't believe ESFJ and ENTJ are generally thought to be very compatible.
    Si, Fe equal Fi & Ti

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    Quote Originally Posted by wrldisquiethere View Post
    Ideally I wanted to be with an ISxP. However, my boyfriend is an ENTJ and we get along very well. Edit: I don't believe ESFJ and ENTJ are generally thought to be very compatible.
    Me neither. Is there any competitiveness in your relationship?
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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    Me neither. Is there any competitiveness in your relationship?
    In what sense? We have been dating for over a year and there has been very little controlling behavior on either side. We actually give each other quite a bit of freedom. Is that what you meant? If not, explain and I'll do my best to answer.
    Si, Fe equal Fi & Ti

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    An N type for me for sure. And he should be a bit more extroverted than me. The rest is negotiable.
    I used to find INTPs very intriguing but my long-term experience with those I've met led me to the conclusion that they are prone to being dysfunctional (i.e. incapable of having a normal relationship), so I've given up on them.

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    Hey shrimpei. Good to see you.

    Re the OP: It's an interesting question. Sometimes you read a type description and you'll think "Eww this type sounds horribly unappealing" and then you meet someone of that type and they are surprising attractive and . And then you'll read a description of another type that sounds soo wonderfully attractive and then you meet someone of that type and they are annoying as all get out and .

    So, I dunno about going by types anymore. I'm trying to shake any preconceived notions I have based on MBTI (both good and bad!) because far too often they seem to be WRONG when compared to real people.





    Or....... you're not falling for all that.... okay, okay, I like ISTP's. Heeee

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    ENFP's & ISFJ's!

    I don't know why though. They just tend to have what I want I guess.
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