Do you like to follow/admire ENTJs or challenge their ways?
The reason I ask is because I know an ENTJ who is manipulative, controlling, and likes to have people dislike him because he feels it gives him power. the ISTJ I am referring to is pretty much blind to this side of the ENTJ. All he sees in the ENTJ is his ability to manage people and get the job done (very, very strong Te). the ISTJ admires his ability to say things how they are and live life without worrying about that person liking him.
It is frustrating to me to see/hear the ISTJ mimic and glorify the ENTJ because he just is naive to the whole situation. I find myself being stubborn and deliberately disobeying and challenging every thought of the ENTJ just so he doesn't get his way (..is this my Fi??)
I think the ISTJ just thinks I'm making it a big deal and that I could learn a thing or two from the ENTJ.
I dunno.. a peice of advice for me to get over it.. (if you SJs think I need to) or ways I could open the eyes of the ISTJ?