[ISTJ] ISTJs, what type are you attracted to?

[LadyJaye]

I don't really think about which types I like the best; I just find flaws and I leave, haha.

At least in the case of the last person, she turned out to be a little more clingy and geeky than I would ever desire. By clingy, I mean that I would've preferred if she had more friends and would want to hang out with more than just me or just two others.

An excellent exit strategy.

Yeah, clingy isn't appealing. But, if you gave it a little thought, do you think you could find a general pattern of the type of women you find attractive? Attributes that might form an over all picture. Besides clingy, of course.

 

[Nonsensical]

score!

And of course I didn't vote for my type in the poll..that would be wrong


INTRUDER ALTER INTRUDER ALERT!

I luh' you guys, too.

Come here, gimme a big ol' bear hug!

 

[NewEra]

score!

And of course I didn't vote for my type in the poll..that would be wrong


INTRUDER ALTER INTRUDER ALERT!

Yeah, that's why I put in the option to show the names of the people who voted, I can use my detective skills to catch you intruders.

Anyway, I voted ENFJ and ESFJ.

 

[Nonsensical]

Yeah, that's why I put in the option to show the names of the people who voted, I can use my detective skills to catch you intruders.

Anyway, I voted ENFJ and ESFJ.

:horor:

I'm....heartbroken!




together...we..could be...theChosenOneWithSoul! yaya

ok, sorry for derailing. Carry on now.

 

[LadyJaye]

score!

And of course I didn't vote for my type in the poll..that would be wrong


INTRUDER ALTER INTRUDER ALERT!

I luh' you guys, too.

Come here, gimme a big ol' bear hug!

HEY buddy! I've already been there, done that. Get to the back of the line!

 

[Max]

An excellent exit strategy.

Yeah, clingy isn't appealing. But, if you gave it a little thought, do you think you could find a general pattern of the type of women you find attractive? Attributes that might form an over all picture. Besides clingy, of course.

Well, clingy and geeky are what I listed as turn-offs, so obviously I wouldn't use those. But I really have never found myself attracted to anyone enough to be able to put their flaws aside. In terms of physical features, yeah, there's a pattern, hahah.

score!

And of course I didn't vote for my type in the poll..that would be wrong


INTRUDER ALTER INTRUDER ALERT!

I luh' you guys, too.

Come here, gimme a big ol' bear hug!

Don't make me use my hornet spray on you.

 

[NewEra]

together...we..could be...theChosenOneWithSoul! yaya

ok, sorry for derailing. Carry on now.

Haha, that's clever.

 

[Nonsensical]

Well, clingy and geeky are what I listed as turn-offs, so obviously I wouldn't use those. But I really have never found myself attracted to anyone enough to be able to put their flaws aside. In terms of physical features, yeah, there's a pattern, hahah.

Don't make me use my hornet spray on you.

LOL, you guys and your sprays..My grandfather keeps pepper spray at each of his doors in his house in hopes that some day he'll get to use it when someone tries to break an entry. LOL.

But it's gonna do a lot more than hornet spray to keep me away! I'm passion driven, riding 1st class on the Love Train..It's comin'..it's comin' !

 

[LadyJaye]

Well, clingy and geeky are what I listed as turn-offs, so obviously I wouldn't use those. But I really have never found myself attracted to anyone enough to be able to put their flaws aside. In terms of physical features, yeah, there's a pattern, hahah.

So you haven't really ever moved past physical attraction in a relationship? Interesting. Happily playing the field, or just playing the field?

Flaws can be a tough one - I had a difficult time dealing with what I perceived as glaring flaws in the people I dated as well as in myself, until I finally met someone I actually loved. Then it was different.

Don't make me use my hornet spray on you.

Watch it - some of us like the hornet spray.

 

[Max]

So you haven't really ever moved past physical attraction in a relationship? Interesting. Happily playing the field, or just playing the field?

I've never been in a relationship. But don't worry, I'm not that shallow, cause if I were, I would just go into the relationship without a care about their personality, wouldn't I?

Flaws can be a tough one - I had a difficult time dealing with what I perceived as glaring flaws in the people I dated as well as in myself, until I finally met someone I actually loved. Then it was different.

Well... I guess I just haven't found the right person. I'm not even looking right now, I emphasize stability in my life first.

And dammit guys, the hornet spray's all I got! Damn hornets... always causing me problems...

 

[LadyJaye]

I've never been in a relationship. But don't worry, I'm not that shallow, cause if I were, I would just go into the relationship without a care about their personality, wouldn't I?

Very true. And for the record, I wasn't implying that you were shallow. I know some folks just prefer to keep their dating life in the LITE variety, you know? Not getting too involved, which I suppose does have it's appeal.

Well... I guess I just haven't found the right person. I'm not even looking right now, I emphasize stability in my life first.

And dammit guys, the hornet spray's all I got! Damn hornets... always causing me problems...

Hey, the hornet/ENFP spray is quite tasty. Just sayin'.

 

[d@v3]

*Buys some ENFP spray*

 

[Clonester]

I work with an ISTJ and I swear (despite the fact that she's engaged) she likes me to some extent. I guess there's something about ENFP's that attracts ISTJ's.

 

[FallaciaSonata]

I once knew a person that I now think was an ENFP.... I wasn't attracted to her romantically, but her way of doing things.....her mindset.....everything was completely opposite to my own.

In short, it wasn't really a....romantic or physical attraction, it was more of an intellectual curiosity. I wanted to figure out why she did what she did and for what reason, etc.

You know....take it apart and see how it works.

 

[Cimarron]

In short, it wasn't really a....romantic or physical attraction, it was more of an intellectual curiosity. I wanted to figure out why she did what she did and for what reason, etc.

You know....take it apart and see how it works.

That's kind of how it was when I met an INTP girl. And it is pretty cool when someone can grab my interest like that.

 

[NewEra]

So, Cimarron, you're attracted to just about every type?

 

[LadyJaye]

I work with an ISTJ and I swear (despite the fact that she's engaged) she likes me to some extent. I guess there's something about ENFP's that attracts ISTJ's.

I dated an ISTJ guy - it struck me oddly that we were so different, and yet, we seemed to come to the same conclusions about things, and it always surprised me.

 

[d@v3]

I dated an ISTJ guy - it struck me oddly that we were so different, and yet, we seemed to come to the same conclusions about things, and it always surprised me.

 

[batumi]

I dated an ISTJ guy - it struck me oddly that we were so different, and yet, we seemed to come to the same conclusions about things, and it always surprised me.

I just married an ISTJ and we had/have the same experience.
We reached the same conclusions but often through different pathways.

 

[LadyJaye]

I just married an ISTJ and we had/have the same experience.
We reached the same conclusions but often through different pathways.

Oh congratulations! I hope your marriage is a long and happy one.