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    The High Priestess Amargith's Avatar
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    ^ I actually asked mine before he came over if he wanted to be hugged upon meeting as I'm kinda affectionate that way, and he said he was too shy for that. So...I left him alone. Not ten minutes after meeting me he was smothering me already. He like jumped me from behind too, I was completely taken by surprise
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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    I wouldn't hug her at the first meet, unless she initiated it.
    Why she can initiate it and you can't?
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    I don't know what's the big deal about meeting someone off the internet. If you meet them in person and don't like them you can always leave. The internet police won't go after you. Nobody gives a shit.
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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    I wouldn't hug her at the first meet, unless she initiated it.
    Good luck with anything romance wise then. Everyone hugs the first time Dave, didn't you know?!
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    BlackCat, I'm not sure why you would say that, but there are lots of differences in personal values/comfort levels, especially on a first meeting. Yes, me being a stuffy ISTJ I would be very uncomfortable hugging on the first date, but that is actually mostly due to personal beliefs, not my type. My sister is a VERY gushy and huggy ENFP and she also would not want to hug someone the first date. Anyway Sam, I would just pay attention to her body language as that would be a guide. Or, ask her beforehand since apparently you've talked about both of you being nervous!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amira View Post
    BlackCat, I'm not sure why you would say that, but there are lots of differences in personal values/comfort levels, especially on a first meeting. Yes, me being a stuffy ISTJ I would be very uncomfortable hugging on the first date, but that is actually mostly due to personal beliefs, not my type. My sister is a VERY gushy and huggy ENFP and she also would not want to hug someone the first date. Anyway Sam, I would just pay attention to her body language as that would be a guide. Or, ask her beforehand since apparently you've talked about both of you being nervous!
    Ah, yeah. You'd work out the details between the two of course.

    I should have clarified, I was just messing with Dave. I added a little something in to emphasize that.

    It would deal with what the two people are comfortable with and also how you feel in the moment.
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    I see :-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Edgar View Post
    I don't know what's the big deal about meeting someone off the internet. If you meet them in person and don't like them you can always leave. The internet police won't go after you. Nobody gives a shit.
    Umm it's a big deal because we don't live in the same state and thus it costs many Rubles sir Vladimir.

    Also, the internet police are real, and as a "former" KGB member you clearly are trying to throw us off of your trail.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Habba View Post
    Why she can initiate it and you can't?
    Because if she doesn't want you to touch her, that could be a problem... and you might go to jail.

    So, unless you know 99% of her WANTS you to touch her, probably shouldn't touch her.
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    Well, we met, and it was the best decision ever lol. It worked out great and now I am in a relationship with her.

    Thanks for all the advice, especially d@v3.
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