Do you behave in a particular way to sustain the 'social norm' when out and about?
Do you care about appearances?
When people come round your place, do you have to make sure its perfect and clean?
Any extra thoughts?
1 - When out, i do not curse nearly as much as i do when at home (away from the children). My children actually ask me to stop being silly when out as i am causing a scene.
2 - I really don't care about appearances. If i look like crap when out, so be it. It doesn't bother me that people may be judging my looks/clothes etc. I don't judge anyone else.
3 - Never, if you come round when a bomb has hit it, oh well. I won't make the extra effort just because someone might think bad of me. You take it as it is. Don't like it then leave.