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    mod love baby... Lady_X's Avatar
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    sure...i see that. i wouldn't either...so...yeah...just tell him...you have no idea what his plans are but you need to make a decision before tomorrow and would prefer to live with him because you guys already know each other but you have to be able to count on it if you decline the other offer...so he needs to let you know for sure tonight.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lady X View Post
    sure...i see that. i wouldn't either...so...yeah...just tell him...you have no idea what his plans are but you need to make a decision before tomorrow and would prefer to live with him because you guys already know each other but you have to be able to count on it if you decline the other offer...so he needs to let you know for sure tonight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rachelinpa View Post
    No romance.
    Can you be certain, that he also thinks like that? ISTJs can be terribly bad when it comes to knowing these kinds of things.

    Quote Originally Posted by Rachelinpa View Post
    And, probably he can't buy the house without a roommate. His back-up plan was to look for an apartment, which would be fine... but with or without me? Since he rarely includes me in his plans, I can never know if he has considered me or not.
    Why is it exactly that he should include you into his plans?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rachelinpa View Post
    At least, that's what I think he was implying when he said, "uhh... here's the thing about that... the Brit actually needs a roommate too..." (not ever really answering me directly!
    What was this in response to? You need to clarify what he meant by it. If that were coming from me, it would more than likely mean that the Brit AND you were living with me. But that's just me. You need to confront him about this ASAP.

    I also agree with Habba. Are you SURE there is no romantic interest on his end?
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