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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    OK. Giggly, you're the brunette, i'll be the blonde.

    Lets make out.
    No, you be the brunette and I'll be the blonde.

    And yes lets make out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    No, you be the brunette and I'll be the blonde.

    And yes lets make out.
    So you want to be the extrovert then. Fine.

    Love you.
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    I test borderline E/I, as well.
    Si, Fe equal Fi & Ti

    "I had a bag of Fritos, they were Texas grilled Fritos. These Fritos had grill marks on them. They remind me of summer, when we used to fire up the barbeque and throw down some Fritos. I can still see my dad with the apron on. Better flip that Frito, dad, you know how I like it." -Mitch Hedberg

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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    I can be around family and bounce off the walls.
    I can home alone and be talking to Eiddy on here and again i am bouncing off her vibes.

    I can go days without seeing my family or any other adult interaction. Me and my brother are the same (both E). That is because of how we were brought up though. Free spirits, independence and you want it, you get it was pushed on us as kids.

    Every ESFJ and ISFJ are going to behave slightly different although having some shared characteristics as all of us have different life experiences.
    And never one to want to be placed into a box ....
    My sister typed ESFJ and she should probably be placed in a box for safety reasons. But to answer the OP we are very different.

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    Interesting thread!

    As an ISFJ male, I'd say for me it's

    1) The number of people we like to be around
    2) The reasons behind it

    ESFJ's I think like the company of several people and feeding off the energy that multiple conversations can have. Myself, I prefer at most 5 people and we're all on the same topic (usually one of interest to me. Otherwise I just throw in my 2 cents now and then but otherwise be quiet)

    I'm sure there are other differences but those are the two I can think of.

    Someone asked earlier how xSFJ guys compared to their female counterparts. I...don't really know how much to answer that. I'd be happy to answer any questions if it might help
    "The man who is swimming against the stream knows the strength of it."
    ― Woodrow Wilson

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    Quote Originally Posted by JTG1984 View Post
    My sister typed ESFJ and she should probably be placed in a box for safety reasons. But to answer the OP we are very different.
    Why????

    Does she bruise easily because she is clumsy .. i counted 26 bruises at one point. Maybe i was just in ESFP mode, lol

    :horor:
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    Because she's a mess and wherever she goes trouble follows.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JTG1984 View Post
    Because she's a mess and wherever she goes trouble follows.
    Oh. I am not laughing anymore. That is sad.
    Hopefully she'll get her shit together at some point.
    Bless.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Strawberrylover View Post
    When it comes to dealing with negative emotions, ISFJs are the ultimate in beating the dead horse. They just can't get over that little pebble in the shoe.
    i just wanted to chime in and COMPLETELY agree with this statement.

    i concur!

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