[ISFJ] ISFJ's and jealousy

[Saslou]

I can be jealous and possessive at times.

Yet all your beautiful positive traits far make up for it.

 

[Lightning_Rider]

I can be jealous and possessive at times.

Me too if I'm not careful but I try to control it.

And yea saslou we have such beautiful other traits we're allowed to be a little jealous and possessive sometimes

 

[Saslou]

Me too if I'm not careful but I try to control it.

And yea saslou we have such beautiful other traits we're allowed to be a little jealous and possessive sometimes

Just not to possessive yeah and only sometimes.

Really, you lot are a good bunch.

 

[KarenParker]

I am sorry but does anyone else see a problem with the bolded sentence.

I don't think anyone should behave that way. That is showing some serious insecurities and trust issues.
In a sense you do ignore (that is an incorrect word for this situation) your partner when talking to someone else because the other person has your undivided attention. You shouldn't have to please someone else all the time.
Isn't that give and take. And respect.

Well I think it's disrespectful to ignore your partner to talk to someone else of the opposite sex in this particular situation. It's not a blanket statement for every situation, of course. And I think give and take is when you try to accommodate the other person but in return, they try to cope with whatever that problem is.

 

[BerberElla]

Well I think it's disrespectful to ignore your partner to talk to someone else of the opposite sex in this particular situation. It's not a blanket statement for every situation, of course. And I think give and take is when you try to accommodate the other person but in return, they try to cope with whatever that problem is.

Can I ask what it is about this situation that makes it more disrespectful than at other times?

 

[Giggly]

Just not to possessive yeah and only sometimes.

Really, you lot are a good bunch.

Yeah yeah yeah, that's all fine and dandy but you're still mine.

 

[SubjectA]

For the record I wasn't ignoring anyone. I was still talking to him as I was typing to my friend.

 

[Saslou]

For the record I wasn't ignoring anyone. I was still talking to him as I was typing to my friend.

Lol. Thats good then because i am usually so engrossed in the conversation that i blank everyone .. Just ask my kids.