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    Senior Member Saslou's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    I can be jealous and possessive at times.
    Yet all your beautiful positive traits far make up for it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Giggly View Post
    I can be jealous and possessive at times.
    Me too if I'm not careful but I try to control it.

    And yea saslou we have such beautiful other traits we're allowed to be a little jealous and possessive sometimes :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lightning_Rider View Post
    Me too if I'm not careful but I try to control it.

    And yea saslou we have such beautiful other traits we're allowed to be a little jealous and possessive sometimes :P
    Just not to possessive yeah and only sometimes.

    Really, you lot are a good bunch.
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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    I am sorry but does anyone else see a problem with the bolded sentence.

    I don't think anyone should behave that way. That is showing some serious insecurities and trust issues.
    In a sense you do ignore (that is an incorrect word for this situation) your partner when talking to someone else because the other person has your undivided attention. You shouldn't have to please someone else all the time.
    Isn't that give and take. And respect.
    Well I think it's disrespectful to ignore your partner to talk to someone else of the opposite sex in this particular situation. It's not a blanket statement for every situation, of course. And I think give and take is when you try to accommodate the other person but in return, they try to cope with whatever that problem is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KarenParker View Post
    Well I think it's disrespectful to ignore your partner to talk to someone else of the opposite sex in this particular situation. It's not a blanket statement for every situation, of course. And I think give and take is when you try to accommodate the other person but in return, they try to cope with whatever that problem is.

    Can I ask what it is about this situation that makes it more disrespectful than at other times?
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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    Just not to possessive yeah and only sometimes.

    Really, you lot are a good bunch.
    Yeah yeah yeah, that's all fine and dandy but you're still mine.

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    For the record I wasn't ignoring anyone. I was still talking to him as I was typing to my friend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SubjectA View Post
    For the record I wasn't ignoring anyone. I was still talking to him as I was typing to my friend.
    Lol. Thats good then because i am usually so engrossed in the conversation that i blank everyone .. Just ask my kids.
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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