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    Senior Member Saslou's Avatar
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    Default SJ's and friends.

    Someone's comment has got me thinking.

    Little experiment now.

    How many friends do you have in real life?

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?




    Although i am asking primarily SJ's, others can answer should they choose. Pease don't turn this into a popularity contest though.
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    How many friends do you have in real life?

    All my friends are on Facebook, so i don't need to see them IRL.
    1 friend i had has stopped talking to me now and is very peeved at me for sticking up for myself. No more doormat, thank you very much.

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?

    70 on Facebook, don't talk to most of them though. If i was to edit my friends list, i think there would only be about 10 people i spoke to on a regular basis.

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?

    I don't make new friends, i talk to strangers and move on. Call me guarded.

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?

    Lmao. No. I haven't had an active social life in 15 years since i was expecting no 1. Kids just became my life. Don't get me wrong, i love talking to people so its easy to start a conversation with a stranger. I do miss having girlfriends and hanging out. Sad really.
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    How many friends do you have in real life?

    All my friends are on Facebook, so i don't need to see them IRL.
    1 friend i had has stopped talking to me now and is very peeved at me for sticking up for myself. No more doormat, thank you very much.

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?

    70 on Facebook, don't talk to most of them though. If i was to edit my friends list, i think there would only be about 10 people i spoke to on a regular basis.

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?

    I don't make new friends, i talk to strangers and move on. Call me guarded.

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?

    Lmao. No. I haven't had an active social life in 15 years since i was expecting no 1. Kids just became my life. Don't get me wrong, i love talking to people so its easy to start a conversation with a stranger. I do miss having girlfriends and hanging out. Sad really.
    That always feels good when you stick up for yourself despite others emotional wants. If she's a real friend she'll come back around and realize she was in the wrong..

    Social life? What's that?
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    You are soooo cute. Lol. Yet so guarded.

    Thought it would be interesting to see, how social we strange creatures are.

    Edit - i am posting this in the Guardhouse, this thread may die very quickly.
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    Friends I'd say I have about quite a few. I have a tendancy of calling people I'm on good terms with friends, even if I don't speak to them for several weeks. Then there's the part that hates rejecting people as friends...

    Fakebook (Fruedian Slip) I've got about 250 friends.

    I make friends by absorbing people through other people. Otherwise I just end up meeting someone in a new environment and becoming glue to them, afterward it becomes harder to meet people since I'm so used to hanging out with particular groups.

    My social life is the internet T___T
    Then again I love gaming, anime and the likes so it's like perfect for me. Now just to extend those aspects to real life.

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    How many friends do you have in real life?
    A handful. I'm not quick to call someone a friend. I do have a few circle of acquaintances.

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?
    I don't maintain any social networking sites

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?
    I can be socialble in any situation and make new friends and contacts.

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?
    It could be more social if I chose it to be that way. I hang out with friends from time to time throughout the year, but most of the time I'm with my girlfriend and her friends, because they tend to get together more.

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    How many friends do you have in real life?
    none

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?
    I have 89 friends on Facebook. But none of them are really my friends. Most are just people from my dance class. I never use Facebook anyway.

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?
    I don't.

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?
    Don't have a social life.

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    How many friends do you have in real life?
    I couldn't even tell you. As far as those I keep up with on a regular basis, I'd say somewhere around 20-25. Past that, I have no idea.

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?
    427 on Facebook

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?
    Usually through social service/religious groups, and mutual acquaintances

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?
    I do when I make it happen. I love hosting parties and planning outings. With most, but not all, of my friends, I'm the initiator. Before I got into a serious relationship, I would plan a group event about once a week or two. Not quite so much anymore because it's just not feasible, but I still love to do it when I can.
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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    How many friends do you have in real life?

    Uhh, I don't know, quite a few but I only talk to maybe 3 of them fairly regularly. We're very close and I tend to put more time into my closer friendships.

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?

    I don't belong to any social networking sites. Never appealed to me.

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?

    Well. I don't. Sad panda. I'd like to change that.

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?

    No. Is that detailed enough? lol
    Answers above.

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    How many friends do you have in real life?

    I'd say 4-5 really close friends that I talk to at least once a week if not more. As for people I am friendly with and will talk to occasionally...maybe like 10?

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?

    379 on Facebook...but that doesn't represent much of anything.

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?

    I have no idea...it just happens. Most of the people I am close to I met through school or work. A few I met through other friends.

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?

    Umm, most of the time it's plenty active for me, but it waxes and wanes. I feel like I either have nothing to do or I'm inundated with too many things. Overall though I'm content. I usually try to see my 4-5 close friends once a week, so that usually gives me something to do just about every day. I usually like 1-2 days of quiet time per week where I don't really have to worry about going out or visiting with others for long periods of time.

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