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  1. #11
    IRL is not real Cimarron's Avatar
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    How many friends do you have in real life?
    2 friends, we hang out often. One or two more, we don't hang out often but are still pretty close.
    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?
    Most of the people I knew from high school. In high school, I ended up with tons of acquaintances and friends, so they're all there. We never really speak much on those sites, even. And I haven't made new friends on those sites.
    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?
    I've always become friends with people by being in the same place and same situation as them, such as being in the same class or same job, or meeting a friend of a friend. How do I actively seek out new friends? I don't. I have this idea in my head that friendships aren't supposed to happen that way.
    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose? I don't think you could say I have an active social life. I wouldn't want it to be too active, anyway. Most of it is just hanging around the house with friends, or going out to eat, or low-key, relaxing things like that. Usually avoiding things that involve putting myself into a crowd of unknown people.
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    How many friends do you have in real life?
    Hmm... Mayhaps three. I really don't keep my "friends" and "associates" lists up-to-date.

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?
    Bit over 30. Instant Messaging for friends, Facebook with associates. I found it works pretty well, since I can have private conversations with my friends in IM, and just keep people I don't see very often generally updated about my life. It helps me pick up conversations with these associates.

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?
    I rarely make new friends. When joining classes, I just hang out there.. just reacting to other people in there.

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?
    What's an active social life? No, really... what is it? Do I speak with other people regularly? Yes. Do I see them regularly? Well, I keep seeing my friends and associates every then and now. Do I party every weekend? No, I do something relaxing... like working.
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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    How many friends do you have in real life?
    More than 600.

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?
    414 and keeps adding.

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?
    I joined clubs and simply involving myself in many activities.

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?
    Hangout with:
    1. My best friends = once a month and regularly calling
    2. My elementary school friends = once a month
    3. My middle school friends = once a month
    4. My high school friends = once every 2 months
    5. My college friends = once a month
    6. My cousins = once a month
    7. My colleagues = once a month


    Please don't turn this into a popularity contest though.
    I can't. I love competition and I love being popular. It's my nature.


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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    How many friends do you have in real life?
    Loads. Hard to count. (I have far fewer close friends.)

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?
    82 on Facebook. Which, like Recoleta said, doesn't mean much.

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?
    I don't work at it. I go with the flow, really. But then again, I'm a student, so I'm around new people all the time.

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?
    Eh. Kind of. Much more so than I used to. Parties, festivals, lunches with friends, church choir/other meetings, classes... But it's not like I go to a party every day, or anything like that.
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    How many friends do you have in real life?

    6-7 I would consider very close (I can say or do anything around them), probably another 7-8 I would consider moderately close (may be slightly guarded around them but still good friends), and then acquaintances, with whom I wouldn't have deep conversation with (more of the "you going out tonight? Woo lets get drunk" meaningless crap hehe).

    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?


    418 on facebook, most of whom I don't talk to.

    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?

    Usually just through class (school). I'm in biz school now so it's very "networking" intensive. I already have enough close friends.

    How do I actively seek out new friends?

    I don't really...I'll actively try and become friendly with people I'm naturally around, such as work colleagues (if I like them)

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    How many friends do you have in real life?

    A handful of friend friends, with a large circle of aquaintances.


    How many friends do you have on social networking sites?

    I apparently have 50 social network site friends.


    How do you go about making new friends, ie joining classes etc?

    The friends that I've met have generally been through work, school, and are friends of friends.

    Do you have an active social life and give details if you choose?

    To a degree. I mean, I go out biking, wandering about, attending concerts, etc., but it's often on my own.

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