Have you ever cheat on your SO?

[WickedQueen]

SJs, have you ever cheat from your SO? If yes, why? If no, what kind of situation that could make you do that?

 

[JivinJeffJones]

Might I suggest the addition of an anonymous poll?

 

[WickedQueen]

That's a good idea.

 

[Matthew_Z]

Never have, never will.

 

[swordpath]

^What he said.

 

[JivinJeffJones]

That's a good idea.

I can't do it, you'll have to. Or maybe ask whichever moderator can't avoid you the quickest.

 

[d@v3]

Not to be a moron, but I'm assuming that's supposed to read "Have you ever cheated on your SO?".

No, I have not, and I never will.

 

[nozflubber]

dude he's from friggin Jakarta, relax on the poor guy! English is prolly his 4th language or something

 

[pure_mercury]

Only one SO, and I was very drunk and we were not having sex at the time.

 

[d@v3]

dude he's from friggin Jakarta, relax on the poor guy! English is prolly his 4th language or something

Hence the reason I said "Not to be a moron..." :rolli: I just wanted to make sure I was understanding the question properly. What if he meant "Have you ever been cheated on from your SO?"

 

[MonkeyGrass]

Nope. And I probably won't.

Now. I will say that, while I believe cheating's wrong, it's not necessarily the end of a relationship. It's a symptom of dysfunction, a problem to be solved, IMO. The relationship was sick before the cheating ever took place.

Assuming our relational morals are similar, maybe a better question to ask is, "How healthy is your relationship with your SO?"

 

[WickedQueen]

dude he's from friggin Jakarta, relax on the poor guy! English is prolly his 4th language or something

Wow, you remember my origin, I'm amazed.
And ummm... *cough* I'm a she, actually.

Not to be a moron, but I'm assuming that's supposed to read "Have you ever cheated on your SO?".

LOL... Yeah, that's what I mean. Thanks.

I can't do it, you'll have to. Or maybe ask whichever moderator can't avoid you the quickest.

LOL... I know. I just think that I don't have to make a poll. But it's a good idea.

 

[stigmatica]

I've been cheated on, but never cheated myself.

Probably been suspected of it a few times though, cause I am a horrendous flirt who enjoys talking to women. Alot... In fact, when cheated on, I basically felt there was an expectation of a spilling forth of my endless cheating exploits. I was happy (well, angry) to disappoint. I'm a hopeless romantic, so the odds of me cheating are pretty slim despite my love for women in general.

 

[Wiley45]

Nope. And I probably won't.

For using the word probably instead of never, I say bravo.

Now. I will say that, while I believe cheating's wrong, it's not necessarily the end of a relationship. It's a symptom of dysfunction, a problem to be solved, IMO. The relationship was sick before the cheating ever took place.

IMO, you're a smart woman.

 

[Giggly]

I've never cheated or been cheated on but I think people cheat because they're not in love.

 

[entropie]

nope

 

[Prototype]

Not while I've been married, and not very likely in the future.

 

[wrldisquiethere]

No, never, and I doubt anything would induce me to do it.

 

[Lexicon]

I've been cheated on, several times.. and I couldn't do it to someone else.
(Hell, even if they cheated on me first.. however that situation's not really applicable since the relationship ended when their infidelity was discovered)

If I were interested in someone else, then that probably means I'm no longer interested in a monogamous relationship, and have been unhappy in it for some time. I imagine that's my signal to go. Unquestionably.

 

[thisGuy]

I've been cheated on, but never cheated myself.

Probably been suspected of it a few times though, cause I am a horrendous flirt who enjoys talking to women. Alot... In fact, when cheated on, I basically felt there was an expectation of a spilling forth of my endless cheating exploits. I was happy (well, angry) to disappoint. I'm a hopeless romantic, so the odds of me cheating are pretty slim despite my love for women in general.

wow...i could have written that! the bigger than life persona sets up for...whats the word here...misunderstandings?

miscommunication is a bitch...isnt it