I think the signs that this guy is showing are excellent examples of signs that an ESTJ dislikes you, especially since he ignored you even when you brought up a favorite topic. ESTJs LOVE talking at people about their passions, so the fact that that didn't work is probably a sign. (It's sort of the "maybe if I ignore them they'll leave me alone" mentality.)Another ESTJ I know seems to never start a conversation with me. It's always me who initiates(and i'm an introvert) and what I always get left with is a "No." "Yes." "This is X." I ask only about 3-5 questions so I won't seem annoying. But when I argue about something, he really shows off his enthusiasm. Those are very short though.
Videogames with the other one. Except I've tried talking about videogames and still he does the "one answer, now go away" conversation.
So, what are the signs of an ESTJ disliking you?
HOWEVER... to fully answer that question (even though this isn't really applicable), I should mention that, if other ESTJs are like me, they can easily set aside their hatred for a person if they know, and have accepted, that they have to be able to work with them. One of my least favorite people in the world (let's call him T) thinks that I like him, because a long time ago, I realized that since T and I have a lot of mutual friends, I'm never going to be able to avoid him, so I might as well be cordial. Even though I'm colder towards him than I am towards other people, if you didn't know me very well, you would have no idea that I disliked him even remotely, let alone that his personality includes almost everything I hate in a person.
Yeah, I get the impression that ESTJ humiliation/pride has ruined many relationships It's really too bad. If only more people knew.(Oh yeah and good call on the INFJ stubbornness/not changing their mind thing. It's a shortcoming of ours...I sure wish I had understood years ago though about how ESTJs sneakily admit defeat and change their minds. I just assumed because they didn't acknowledge it and I likely wouldn't change my mind that they weren't doing it either.)