He's an arrogant one though, and he doesn't take direction easily...I accidentally pushed a little too hard one time on something he needed to get moving on (naturally, it involved the decent treatment of certain people within the community). I realize now, I must've broke something, because we've never been the same since as friends. He had a similar experience with another, much older ENFJ that used to mentor him. Dude is like porcelan: extremely hard, but breaks easily.
I know this formula reverses over time with ESTJs, and I just wanna say, I love all you guys (I'm hardheaded in my own way, and y'all are awesome!). I don't think he'd ever give me the opportunity to apologize to him, but I am sorry about it (even if I was right ).