I may ask him a question in a message and he probably wonders, "Why is she asking me this? I don't have time for this now!" But when he calls (and this isn't very often), he just picks back up like there hasn't been a break. He also remembers everything I wrote to him, too (impressive in my book...I can't even begin to do this).
I think that it's just my weak Fe paranoia getting to me. I need to remember if he says he cares, then he just does...no second guessing the ESTJ.
P.S. I hope this was clear...very distracted. I'm supposed to be working on a project--not be here on TypoC!