So i am currenly reading a very interesting book which was recommended by someone from this site.
'Survival games personalities play'.
Its about the games we play in life in order to survive.
We SJ's play the Complain game apparantly.
The six variants are invalid, worried, doormat, poor me, depressed and nag.
Invalid - Complaining of real aches and pains.
Worried - plagued with terrible worries and fears of bad things that may happen.
Doormat - Allowing themselves to be stepped on by others while behaving as lowly servants.
Poor me - complain loudly and often about put upon they are.
Depressed - filled with sadness, everythings dark and dreary with no hope.
Nag - Harps on others what they should and should not be feeling, thinking and/or doing.
This book also looks at the other 3 types, NT, SP and NF's so they have their own problems as well.
I was just curious though, Can you relate to the above?