There is an ESFJ I have recently met,and I've never met a more emotionally unstable person in my life. She is a creature purely of instinct, following her heart wherever it may take her, whenever it may be. Allow me to demonstrate the case in point:
This particular ESFJ has a long history of cheating in relationships. I can only deduce that she attempts to fill the gaps in her idealized man with every subsequent male partner. Her recent targets have been the, "nice guys," (perhaps "F" males), which are the only types I believe can tolerate her. Once she knows they accept her for who she is, she irrationally directs all her negative energy at that person. It seems randomly, the unprovoked argumentation she incites vaporizes into thin air and she becomes the world's cutest, most harmonized individual. She believes all people are innately stupid until proven otherwise, that children are the wretch of the world, and that the world owes her some due respect regardless of all said negativity.
Tell me ESFJs, is this normal for your type? I imagine not. But I'd like to hear your input anyways.