[ISFJ] Why ISFJs=BEST

[maliafee]

If the both of you had kids, I would consider them so lucky. Two great personalities and looks to match..

Thank you so much for the compliments! So kind! ...Hmmm, He is so handsome. And 6'3"!!! Our kids will be giants haha...

 

[Eiddy]

So much the better. They say when you have to look up to someone, naturally they just get more responsibilities. So that's a definite plus.

I wish for the both of you all the future success and happiness.

 

[Lightning_Rider]

Yay for ISFJ

 

[INA]

They taste yummy, and I don't mean just their tears.

 

[mortabunt]

The closest that I can come to an ISFJ is someone who's feely, but you can't explain anything to that they haven't already heard from the new york times. Christ, it sucks that S types are so freaken hard to communticate with.

 

[Saslou]

^That's why I rolled my eyes. I think I will pass on the group hugs. ISTJ's are like ISFJ's who can live without hugging and other emotionaly expression.

I do understand, but my 14 yr old just like you doesn't like emotions etc .. it is nice however that on occasions that i can squeeze him and visa verse.

The closest that I can come to an ISFJ is someone who's feely, but you can't explain anything to that they haven't already heard from the new york times. Christ, it sucks that S types are so freaken hard to communticate with.

Shite .. i didn't see what you type is .. The key to communicating with me is .. If i ask a question just answer it .. I don't want a book, i just want a yes, no and why. Simple as. Practical darling.
If you want to tell me the difference between a 1080 pixel LCD TV and a lower pixel one. Great i will listen, but that's what interests you, not me, i am just being polite, listen and maybe learn something new or maybe not.

Now how easy is that???

 

[Athenian200]

The closest that I can come to an ISFJ is someone who's feely, but you can't explain anything to that they haven't already heard from the new york times. Christ, it sucks that S types are so freaken hard to communticate with.

So what you're saying is, you believe that SFJs tend only to believe and understand what they're told by a trusted authority, correct?

Why do you believe this? When did you start believing it?

 

[maliafee]

So much the better. They say when you have to look up to someone, naturally they just get more responsibilities. So that's a definite plus.

I wish for the both of you all the future success and happiness.

Thank you so very much!

The closest that I can come to an ISFJ is someone who's feely, but you can't explain anything to that they haven't already heard from the new york times. Christ, it sucks that S types are so freaken hard to communticate with.

This is ridiculous. S's couldn't be easier to communicate with. See, you're looking into things too hard... we don't, and that's the secret.

 

[mortabunt]

So what you're saying is, you believe that SFJs tend only to believe and understand what they're told by a trusted authority, correct?

Why do you believe this? When did you start believing it?

Because its in the nature of SJ's to be narrow minded. I started beleiving it after I first learned about Keirsey's temperaments. It suddenly made some sense.

 

[mortabunt]

Thank you so very much!




This is ridiculous. S's couldn't be easier to communicate with. See, you're looking into things too hard... we don't, and that's the secret.

To communicate with S's, I have to reduce the level of my communication. I feel as if I am talking to someone who barely speaks the same language as me.

 

[maliafee]

To communicate with S's, I have to reduce the level of my communication. I feel as if I am talking to someone who barely speaks the same language as me.

That's how I felt in high school talking to morons (forgive me, I had a terrible high school experience because of so many reasons). It's probably about intelligence level, in my opinion, not exactly S vs. N... an intelligent S is not annoyingly hard to talk to about interesting stuff the way a very unintelligent S would be.

 

[mortabunt]

There is always a bit of an SN barrier, although intelligent S's can speak mild degrees of N. I type in a straightforward manner because I am certain that somehow, an S will come along and not know what I mean.

 

[527468]

ISFJ is like the feeling you get on Christmas. In my case, I get good presents, but I become bored of them within a few weeks.

 

[run]

That's how I felt in high school talking to morons (forgive me, I had a terrible high school experience because of so many reasons). It's probably about intelligence level, in my opinion, not exactly S vs. N... an intelligent S is not annoyingly hard to talk to about interesting stuff the way a very unintelligent S would be.

eh... I know some intelligent S's who need me to use precise terminology.

But maybe that's just to be 'sure'.

 

[527468]

eh... I know some intelligent S's who need me to use precise terminology.

But maybe that's just to be 'sure'.

The odd thing is I think they understand just as much as you do, but they urge to be even more sure about it. Ns can basically get some info, then make up the rest, where as an S couldn't be sure about the info not being from its source. Are they being more serious??? I've seen some Ss get something just as easily as I could, but they want all those extras because they wish to be seriously involved.

 

[maliafee]

There is always a bit of an SN barrier, although intelligent S's can speak mild degrees of N. I type in a straightforward manner because I am certain that somehow, an S will come along and not know what I mean.

You may be right. N's feel like S's are missing something, but S's know N's are missing a whole lot of something too...

Anyway, interesting conversation but I would love to keep this thread about praising/worshipping ISFJs (*chuckle* )...

 

[maliafee]

I'm sick. I went to my ISFJ's art show anyway yesterday. His paintings looked amazing, and we saw some other interesting stuff. But I was so exhausted from it all. My ISFJ brought me dinner and took care of me all evening in return. He is so wonderful. Monday night we're going to see Fleetwood Mack and Tuesday we're going to plant our vegetable garden.

ISFJs are like the Sundae to my cherry. All substance and deliciousness hehe...

 

[Eiddy]

That is so sweet.. love it!!!

 

[run]

They have a calming effect on me.

 

[Athenian200]

That's how I felt in high school talking to morons (forgive me, I had a terrible high school experience because of so many reasons).

I know what you mean, I had to try and talk to people back then as well. High school is why I don't like most people. They were all loud, stupid, and flailed around too much. I don't know if it's better outside of high school, but it's hard to trust in their sanity after seeing that.