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    Quote Originally Posted by Rainbows View Post
    -He bought me dinner.

    -He comes around and sits with me and never does that with other customers.

    -He gets all his other work done then comes and spends extra time talking to me. (just small talk)

    -I have caught him staring at me numerous times.
    Those are pretty good examples and from them I infer further that Rainbows does not want a one night stand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rainbows View Post
    -He bought me dinner.

    -He comes around and sits with me and never does that with other customers.

    -He gets all his other work done then comes and spends extra time talking to me. (just small talk)

    -I have caught him staring at me numerous times.
    Yes, I agree with Eagle. I would say he likes you.
    So what is the next step? That is the question. How do you speed things up a bit? Well, I don't know. I'd say that you need to establish first a consistent line of communication and for him to know for sure that you like him back. Otherwise, he will probably too afraid of rejection to admit it. On the other hand, he may already know that you like him.
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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    Yes, I agree with Eagle. I would say he likes you.
    So what is the next step? That is the question. How do you speed things up a bit? Well, I don't know. I'd say that you need to establish first a consistent line of communication and for him to know for sure that you like him back. Otherwise, he will probably too afraid of rejection to admit it. On the other hand, he may already know that you like him.
    Of course you agree with me. :P

    I think she should just be slightly forward but vague. He probably would like that. maybe be as open to the fact that she likes him as he was about dinner.

    Besides that just ask him to call you to talk sometime. Get his email. Find something common but not extremely extensive to talk about. Then move things forward.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eagle View Post
    Of course you agree with me. :P

    I think she should just be slightly forward but vague. He probably would like that. maybe be as open to the fact that she likes him as he was about dinner.

    Besides that just ask him to call you to talk sometime. Get his email. Find something common but not extremely extensive to talk about. Then move things forward.
    Yeah, the thing that throws me off though is that she gave him her phone number and he didn't call.

    Now, there could be a number of reasons but I have boiled it down to two:
    1) He chickened out
    2) He lost the piece of paper with the number on it

    I think it's 50/50 on either one of those. (Although if I had to choose, I would say he chickened out )
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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    Yeah, the thing that throws me off though is that she gave him her phone number and he didn't call.

    Now, there could be a number of reasons but I have boiled it down to two:
    1) He chickened out
    2) He lost the piece of paper with the number on it

    I think it's 50/50 on either one of those. (Although if I had to choose, I would say he chickened out )
    Possibly a bit of both..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eagle View Post
    Possibly a bit of both..

    Rainbows... Tell him to text you instead of call.
    Yes, and I think Eagle said this before, but try to get some kind of internet communication going. Be it an instant messaging program or even myspace at this point.
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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    Yes, and I think Eagle said this before, but try to get some kind of internet communication going. Be it an instant messaging program or even myspace at this point.
    Mhmm. Texting should work.
    It's less personal and slightly detached. He doesn't have to talk. Possibly wont feel or be as inhibited.
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    Right, and it gives him time to think about his response.
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    Quote Originally Posted by raz View Post
    Wear those corsets to see him.
    I have before....he gets really shy.
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