Don't be fooled by Eagles facade. While he is indeed correct flirting is nice, we tend to be oblivious to it. (So be OBVIOUS) We also suck at flirting with others... that is, until we get comfortable around them.
Whoever said we are patient... is correct. We can wait for a LONG time before making any "moves" or doing anything of the sort. It is best if you let us know when it is "okay" to make moves and let us know what moves to make.
Don't be fooled by Eagles facade. While he is indeed correct flirting is nice, we tend to be oblivious to it. (So be OBVIOUS)
I don't think I'm oblivious, it's just that it gets folded into this:
Originally Posted by AutumnReverie
I'm not completely oblivious...I'm just unsure exactly what those feelings are. I suppose I'm supposed to know based on my "gut feeling", but I need something more concrete. When I'm trying to figure out if someone likes me, I examine the facts: "he does -this- on a consistent basis with me, but doesn't seem to do that with anyone else", "he casually but tentatively touches my arm during conversations, that could possibly mean...", " he has said -this- and -that- which could possibly be interpreted as...", etc.
with which I agree, and think that was a good example.