Oh, I don't think it's so bad. I do think it's helpful though for people to figure their own selves out and also to wait until they've had a chance to develop a bit as adults. I wouldn't say my parents don't care deeply about each other. It's just that they're at an impasse. There are a lot more tools now out there than there were 50 years ago when they got married.
I also think that some types are satisfied with a different level of intimacy than others. It's sometimes difficulty when you get one person for whom it means the world to with another person for whom it's less important.