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    Senior Member Saslou's Avatar
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    Default Come out of the closet ESFJ's and show yourselves

    I was told there are not a lot of ESFJ's on here as this is something we would usually not be interested in .. If you are out there .. could you please show yourselves .. Thanks .. (Is there anybody ... out there, pink floyd)

    Also anyone also happen to know who our best/worst type is????

    Your all diamonds .. MUAHHHHH
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    I'm part ESFJ or something or something like that.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by proteanmix View Post
    I'm part ESFJ or something or something like that.
    So its just you and me darling .. oh shit .. hey, lets do something fun?? what do you have in mind?
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
    ― Georgia O'Keeffe

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    They're here, they just don't post often. I'm sure they're busy with life.
    () 9w8-3w4-7w6 tritype.

    sCueI (primary Inquisition)

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    They're here, they just don't post often. I'm sure they're busy with life.
    Well how bloody selfish is that .. lmao .. i will be busy with life .. when i have a house, job, car, gym, kids (cant forget the kids) .. until then, you are all stuck with me .. (not long now )
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    Hai ESFJs!

    But in all seriousness you're experiencing the same thing that happened to me when I joined the forum

    zomg ESTP, stay plz you guys rock!! ;o

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unique View Post
    Hai ESFJs!

    But in all seriousness you're experiencing the same thing that happened to me when I joined the forum

    zomg ESTP, stay plz you guys rock!! ;o
    OK .. you twisted my arm .. that wasn't hard
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    ... what can I say? I have a nack :P ... lol

    My brothers an ESFJ

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    Quote Originally Posted by Unique View Post
    ... what can I say? I have a nack :P ... lol

    My brothers an ESFJ
    I bet your brother isn't on this site is he?
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    It's odd - I've known only a few ESFJs irl, and most of them were men. I have one girlfriend who's ESFJ and she's adorable. I felt the need to beat guys off of her - she's simply too pretty and charming to be left alone. lol We had the strangest IM conversations. She could slay me. Her sense of humor is out there.
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