I have a friend who wants to set me up with someone she dated almost a decade ago. I think it's weird to date an friend's ex, so I told her, "No." Then she sets me up with him anyway..
To make a long story short- my gut's telling me "let's just be friends- and maybe he's a player." My friend tells me I'm very guarded (I know I'm not). This guy seems cool, but he made a comment about me not giving him a kiss after dinner? I was kinda disturbed by this, because most guys should be polite about that and not expect. What does he think I am?
Then I go to his house and the place is spick and span, and he was avidly watching FOX news which scared the shit out of me.
So, should I trust myself with this ISFJ dude, or am I trippin? He says he wants us to work out, but i keep telling him, "I don't want to disrespect my friend like that." Then he says, "But it was 8 years ago." Is he being shady? I told him, "That's the thing.. we met b4 when u 2 were going out. I feel like it's wrong." What do you guys think?