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    Perfect Gentleman! =D d@v3's Avatar
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    Default Finding ISFJ's

    Well, this question have been nagging me for a couple weeks now. I guess it's just out of curiosity though as Jeffster and some others were talking to me about it in vent. And since Warm refuses to help me by answering my questions...

    How does one go about finding and wooing an ISFJ?
    What do ISFJ's look for in a guy/girl?
    How similar are they to the ISTJ when it comes to relationships?
    Where do they "hide out"?
    How do they flirt?
    What types are they typically interested in?

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    Taking a guess here-

    In a corporate office, at the happy hour, look for the shy girl (w/o a ring) talking up a couple of her workmates. Probably a decent chance she's an ISFJ. If not, well hell don't let that stop you
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    lol- good point spirillis.
    i think its like 20% of females are ISFJ's.

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    Yes there are a lot of ISFJs, just not on this website. More than likely you will be with one in a class Dave. I'd say a good way to identify them is to find that girl who is like an ISTJ, but softer and not logically driven in life. This doesn't mean that they are stupid, they, like every other feeler just don't think logic is that important compared to other things.
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    one of my sisters is an isfj . she's like the perfect lil house wife mom person...perfect for an istj i think...way more than me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by shortnsweet View Post
    lol- good point spirillis.
    i think its like 20% of females are ISFJ's.
    20%?! I must be blind then! I don't notice them. I'm not sure how to distinguish them from others? It would appear to me that they blend in easily with the crowd. I suppose I could say some hideous joke and look for the girl who isn't laughing!

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    Dave, man, you seriously need to forget about MBTI when it comes to chicks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sytpg View Post
    Dave, man, you seriously need to forget about MBTI when it comes to chicks.
    LOL! It's not like I search for a certain "type"! I know, any relationship can work with ANY "type". This thread is not for me, it's for everyone to know more about ISFJ's because they are so quiet, so stop directing your answers at me! :steam:

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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    It's not like I search for a certain "type"!:
    The OP seems to think otherwise.

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    lol. d@ve, people are going to direct their answers at you because you started the thread and you know it. :P
    I have at least two sisters that are ISFJs. Devoted, emotional, caring. The F changes a lot of things. I'm with BlackCat on this one.
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