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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    Agreed, stop trying hide from us Erin! Don't run away from your feelings!
    I think it's her feelings that are telling her to run away.

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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    Make any sense or is your head just as messed up as mine???
    Some of the things you write apply to me as well, but i don't have any problem with "being put in a box", in fact i find it very comforting. But now you have made me unsure of my own type

    well, i don't think we're both isfj's (could it be that you are esfj as d@v3 says?)

    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    Do you think you could be ESFJ? You said you were shy for the first five minutes but then you moved in?

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    Just found out I'm best friends with an ISFJ! XD I took the liberty of asking her these questions.

    How does one go about finding and wooing an ISFJ?
    Weeell, my ISFJ likes to go to the library, works diligently during the day at her job, and goes to her church regularly. The wooing isn't so hard; be polite, respectful, and be direct. An ISFJ, in her experience, is not big on mind-games.

    What do ISFJ's look for in a guy/girl?
    Repeat: polite, gentlemanly, respectful, dependable, kind. (for female seeking male)

    How similar are they to the ISTJ when it comes to relationships?
    They both want the dating to just start, lol. Ask and see what happens. They'll be quite trustworthy and do their best to make the relationship work.

    Where do they "hide out"?
    See number one, please.

    How do they flirt?
    Shy. Coy. Blushing. Nothing too obvious.

    What types are they typically interested in?
    Mostly ISTJ. The protective, dependable, but huggable teddy-bear kind of thing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bubbles View Post
    What types are they typically interested in?
    Mostly ISTJ. The protective, dependable, but huggable teddy-bear kind of thing.
    Freedom Isn't Free. [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]

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    Quote Originally Posted by Requeim View Post
    Some of the things you write apply to me as well, but i don't have any problem with "being put in a box", in fact i find it very comforting. But now you have made me unsure of my own type

    well, i don't think we're both isfj's (could it be that you are esfj as d@v3 says?)
    I have just checked out the ESFJ ..warm, sympathetic, helpful, cooperative, tactful, down-to-earth, practical, thorough, consistent, organized, enthusiastic, and energetic. They enjoy tradition and security, and will seek stable lives that are rich in contact with friends and family.
    Some is spot on .. the only thing i will strongly disagree on is the manipulation part .. i treat people how i like to be treated .. that's with kindness and respect .. i don't do tactful .. i call a spade a spade and wont mince my words (if it hurts your feelings then dont ask for my opinion, kind of thing) and the rich contact with friends and family .. either/or .. i can see them and am happy .. but if i didn't see anyone for a year, i wouldn't really care ..

    I am going to take this test again .. AHHHHHHHHH
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    So i took it again and i came up as a

    Your Type is
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    Extraverted Sensing Feeling Judging
    Strength of the preferences %
    11 50 50 22

    So thats it .. i give up .. whatever i am .. I am Sarah and a screwed up 4 .. lol .. its all good (i am not a manipulator though)
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    Quote Originally Posted by saslou View Post
    (i am not a manipulator though)
    that's manipulation right there :steam:

    nah, i also need to test myself again.. It bothers me that there are so many different though, there should just be a standard one that everybody takes

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    Remember that ENTJ is the dual type of ISFJ.
    ENTj 7-3-8 sx/sp

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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    Remember that ENTJ is the dual type of ISFJ.
    Sorry .. Dual type??? .. your opposite??
    “I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
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    According to personality page ISFJs like us ESTPs

    I still find it hard to believe myself lol though I have been on a date with an ISFJ that was ages ago tho... um i found her... online i guess... but not like online dating sites haha I cant stand that stuff, she was a friend of a friend, just IMed a lot and yeah

    Probably why I'm more into socionics

    Seriously though, ISFJs are everywhere...

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