oh come on. im sick of all these people going on with "dont use MBTI to determine ____ ", "any type can work with any type ___" bla bla bla
I like your idea .. I can personally say that ESFJ's and INTJ's do not work .. REPEAT .. do not work .. lmao.
Its not like on your first date, you hand him/her the website and ask them to take the test to determine if you should see each other again .. (that would be funny though, might bear that in mind if i get back into the saddle again) ..
“I made you take time to look at what I saw and when you took time to really notice my flower, you hung all your associations with flowers on my flower and you write about my flower as if I think and see what you think and see—and I don't.”
― Georgia O'Keeffe
Anyway, don't give up hope, but act totally normal and chill. The bigger deal you make out of this, the more cornered she is going to feel about making her decision. In the meantime, just be your gentleman self and show her what she could be missing out on.
I agree! :O
"I feel so strongly that the deep and simple is far more essential than the shallow and complex." -Fred Rogers