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    I gave her the note today... I think it scared her... after the class she hurried off before me... she did not smile at me or talk to me or anything ... I'm afraid I have really screwed things up... the note asked her to e-mail me so hopefully I will get some sort of response, if not, it will be quite awkward to see her in the following classes...
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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    I gave her the note today... I think it scared her... after the class she hurried off before me... she did not smile at me or talk to me or anything ... I'm afraid I have really screwed things up... the note asked her to e-mail me so hopefully I will get some sort of response, if not, it will be quite awkward to see her in the following classes...
    I'm not ISFJ, but I am a girl, so I'm going to toss in my two cents, d@v3. It's entirely possible that this girl didn't even realize you liked her and is now so shocked that she doesn't know what to do about this note yet. You could still be in the "I don't know how I feel about him" territory for her. And, as Tea Party said earlier, ISFJs like to think things through before they say them. (Or write them, because speaking is tough, too.)

    Anyway, don't give up hope, but act totally normal and chill. The bigger deal you make out of this, the more cornered she is going to feel about making her decision. In the meantime, just be your gentleman self and show her what she could be missing out on.
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    Remember, ISFJs aren't usually good with words...
    Huh?!!!
    Super confident people who are really good at flirting can be really intimidating... we don't know how to flirt back, and we can't keep up with them! (Which makes us feel inadequate.)
    Huh?!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    Well, this question have been nagging me for a couple weeks now. I guess it's just out of curiosity though as Jeffster and some others were talking to me about it in vent. And since Warm refuses to help me by answering my questions...

    How does one go about finding and wooing an ISFJ?
    What do ISFJ's look for in a guy/girl?
    How similar are they to the ISTJ when it comes to relationships?
    Where do they "hide out"?
    How do they flirt?
    What types are they typically interested in?
    ok so.... ive been hearing how ENTJ/ISFJ is quite common. so i need to locate one to see what all the fuss is about. where does one find an ISFJ?

    and do the instructions change for it being ENTJ pursuer vs ISTJ (dave) pursuer? i imagine i scare most of 'em off...

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    Okay.... any more updates on the ISFJ I wll put here in my shiny new blog - http://www.typologycentral.com/forum...tml#post628701
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    so i take it all you ISFJs are afraid of answering teh ENTJ???

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    ^^ Don't you think it would be wiser to figure out who you are than rely on MBTI for who you think might make a good girlfriend?

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    Quote Originally Posted by countrygirl View Post
    ^^ Don't you think it would be wiser to figure out who you are than rely on MBTI for who you think might make a good girlfriend?
    oh come on. im sick of all these people going on with "dont use MBTI to determine ____ ", "any type can work with any type ___" bla bla bla

    where's the fun in this system!?

    PS: how in the world will figuring out who "you are" help me find a girlfriend? (im semi-serious )

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    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post

    PS: how in the world will figuring out who "you are" help me find a girlfriend? (im semi-serious )
    Lmao .. that's cute
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    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post
    oh come on. im sick of all these people going on with "dont use MBTI to determine ____ ", "any type can work with any type ___" bla bla bla

    where's the fun in this system!?

    PS: how in the world will figuring out who "you are" help me find a girlfriend? (im semi-serious )
    Ah I see! You're just out for fun! Good luck.

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