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    Senior Member niki's Avatar
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    Default what do you guys think of ESFJ girls?

    anyone?

    I have a female ESFJ friend,
    and all I can say about her is: she's such a caring person....even when I never asked her to particularly care for me

    what do you guys think?
    any experience with ESFJ girl?

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    Intriguing.... Quinlan's Avatar
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    Generous, caring, very sympathetic, outgoing, interested in others, very expressive, great with kids and animals, at times moody, needy, and they like tidy environments.

    They always look well "put together" if that makes sense.

    Basically awesome.

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    Wonderful creatures. Truly caring.

    I think many negative stereotypes associated with the ESFJ female are probably better applied to their ESTJ counterpart.

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    I would be willing to bet that they would get along with me better than the ESTJ's!

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    When they are mature they are awesome people. Otherwise when they are immature they are annoying and naggy.
    () 9w8-3w4-7w6 tritype.

    sCueI (primary Inquisition)

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackCat View Post
    When they are mature they are awesome people. Otherwise when they are immature they are annoying and naggy.
    How is any type different when they're immature?
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    ESFJ -
    When they're good, they are really good.
    When they're bad, they are really bad.

    ESTJ -
    When they are good or bad, they're really bad.

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    God, I hope this thread doesn't turn into another ESxJ bitchfest.
    Relationships have normal ebbs and flows. They do not automatically get better and better when the participants learn more and more about each other. Instead, the participants have to work through the tensions of the relationship (the dialectic) while they learn and group themselves and a parties in a relationships. At times the relationships is very open and sharing. Other time, one or both parties to the relationship need their space, or have other concerns, and the relationship is less open. The theory posits that these cycles occur throughout the life of the relationship as the persons try to balance their needs for privacy and open relationship.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ajblaise View Post
    ESTJ -
    When they are good or bad, they're really bad.
    Not true! When they like you, they're the best. When they don't, holy shit. Luckily mine loves me for some reason.

    *Equips his ESTJ hate extinguisher*



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    I only know one ESFJ (confirmed type) - my receptionist coworker.

    She's extremely dutiful, always finding something to do around the office, very bubbly in expression, makes a LOT of small talk with the people in the office (although, I don't think she would consider it small talk -- ex., telling everyone about the new car she's getting, what her dog did yesterday, about the party she's planning, etc.), very sensitive to smells (she walks around spraying the office with odor eliminating spray -- even if it's just the smell of someone's lunch), careful and serious about her work, very enthusiastic about a new deal the company has closed (and follows the "story" with all the details from start to finish), very clean and tidy (her environment and her way of dress), talks on the phone a lot with her mom and husband and gets upset easily by events in the newspaper (and follows the news consistently).

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