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    See Right Through Me Bubbles's Avatar
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    Oh, dear. I might add the ESFJ sibling I mentioned is a preteen, and therefore still in the maturing stage? Plus, we're sisters, haha! Of course we're going to see each other at our ugliest.

    ESFJs ARE lovely. They truly are. Great planners, great people-people, and they can bring life to anyone and anything. I think it's their passion that distinguishes them--it can go either in a great direction or a bad one. I do apologize for only mentioning the negatives, that wasn't my intention at all.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pure_mercury View Post
    I think I've actually gotten more extroverted as I've grown up. Of course, I am a weirdo.
    Well maybe you just get less annoying.
    () 9w8-3w4-7w6 tritype.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pure_mercury View Post
    See, I don't do that at all, and one of my biggest pet peeves is when people take out bad moods on everyone else. Drives me up the wall.
    Yeah, this is a big pet peeve of mind too, but I have definitely seen some ESFJs take out their bad mood on everyone else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by raz View Post
    My mother is ESFJ, father is INTJ. I just don't get what he sees in her. I'm not saying she's a bad person. It's just, they're on such different wavelengths. It must just be the opposites attract thing.

    Wow raz. My mom is an ESFJ and my dad is an INTJ (supposedly) too.
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    They are your typical sorority girl...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eagle View Post
    Wow raz. My mom is an ESFJ and my dad is an INTJ (supposedly) too.
    Well, I've never met an INTJ I didn't think was cool so I can see this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hmm View Post
    Yeah, this is a big pet peeve of mind too, but I have definitely seen some ESFJs take out their bad mood on everyone else.

    I am sure. An ESFJ who is self-absorbed (it can happen) is probably a bear to be around.
    Who wants to try a bottle of merc's "Extroversion Olive Oil?"

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    I don't deny I've taken out bad moods on other people, but whenever people talk about ESFJs on the forum them being emotional whackjobs or illogical is the defining characteristic of the type. Everyone in my family and my friends have taken out their bad mood on me on at some point in time. There is no range of behaviors that people comment on that ESFJs exhibit; it's the same complaints or even compliments. I don't see any richness or variety in descriptions of behavior. It's very hollow which is probably why ESFJs who have their heads screwed on right don't identify.
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    Quote Originally Posted by proteanmix View Post
    I don't deny I've taken out bad moods on other people, but whenever people talk about ESFJs on the forum them being emotional whackjobs or illogical is the defining characteristic of the type. Everyone in my family and my friends have taken out their bad mood on me on at some point in time. There is no range of behaviors that people comment on that ESFJs exhibit; it's the same complaints or even compliments. I don't see any richness or variety in descriptions of behavior. It's very hollow which is probably why ESFJs who have their heads screwed on right don't identify.
    Yeah, I agree, and that makes the people who do the bolded the illogical emotional whackjobs. They're projecting!

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    ESFJs have bad sides that are more tolerable than ESTJ, ISFJ, ESFP. (one letter difference)

    I know one who's 20 and she's pretty smart for an sfj (this is coming from an intp), and she's pretty cute too.

    Most INTPs like myself dislike SF's of any kind, but this one type is an exception.

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