Well, I'm not really sure why it's flattering. I suppose everyone wants to be liked? I dunno.
It's unexpected because, above all else, I picture ISTJs to be reserved. I am learning that that might possibly be an erroneous stereotype.
Yeah, I guess you have a point. But doesn't flattering mean more along the lines of "buttering up" someone?
I'd say thats definitley a stereotype! Although, I may not seem like it, put me in a group of people (especially with a female I find "interesting") and I will be very quiet and not say much. Yes, I am very shy.
But not online! I have the gift of anonymity.
I have never had luck with you females, but that doesn't stop me from coming back for more! But it's my own fault. I am picky with the girls I "fall" for.