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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    Hardly, she's just trying to establish some form of connection with you. Way too early to even consider the rest, remember?
    It is still hard to understand though. Why say you "want to get together sometime" after talking for 2 days? Does that not imply that she wants to see me? If not, why say such a thing if you don't mean it?

    This stuff should be going in the ISTJ-ENFP thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    It is still hard to understand though. Why say you "want to get together sometime" after talking for 2 days? Does that not imply that she wants to see me? If not, why say such a thing if you don't mean it?

    This stuff should be going in the ISTJ-ENFP thread.

    Sigh, coz we like to talk to people and like to have fun with them, Dave. We don't just go looking for mates, we go looking for interesting people.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    Sigh, coz we like to talk to people and like to have fun with them, Dave. We don't just go looking for mates, we go looking for interesting people.
    Well then why doesn't she just tell me what is so interesting about me so I can emphasize that part?

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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    Well then why doesn't she just tell me what is so interesting about me so I can emphasize that part?
    Which one of you were an ISTJ female?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Habba View Post
    Which one of you were an ISTJ female?
    I recently converted at dave's request
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    d@ve. the key is to wait for the ENXX people to come after you
    .... there is no way you could ever "strategically" ensnare them... so just relax

    ie: if that ENFP really wanted to get to together with you, she'd actaully arrange it/ask etc

    Quote Originally Posted by BC
    1. you cant force it. if you have to worry about what to say at x or y point, then you're talking to the wrong person
    2. you cant force it. the moment you accept this, you can relax and just have fun (and if you feel 'pressured' to 'have fun', then please see point number 1')

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    So Davey, have you talked to her yet?

    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post
    d@ve. the key is to wait for the ENXX people to come after you
    .... there is no way you could ever "strategically" ensnare them... so just relax

    ie: if that ENFP really wanted to get to together with you, she'd actaully arrange it/ask etc
    +1
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    Y'see there are 2 lines of action, do nothing or do something.

    Doing nothing is not an option here. Female ISTJ are ball-breakers. (So are male ISTJ, but nevermind.)

    Within the do-something possibility there are 2 options: passive & active.

    An active solution would be tell the lady what's eatin' ya. Be honest. Go on, tell her. Cons - everyone will thing you're a bastard, if that bothers ya; pros - it works.

    The passive route is much more interesting. ISTJs do not like strangeness. This is the key to getting them out your hair. And it could be fun.

    Grow your hair long; start writing poetry. Paint abstract paintings (ask her to model, dressed as a rabbit); learn the banjo and sing spirituals really fast. Become an athiest and start quoting Dawkins at every opportunity. Tell her you've become a pacifist and have a copy of Wind in the Willows (open, strategically, of course) placed in the bathroom.

    Paint your toe-nails black and wear flip-flops! This might work, without any of the above.

    In short you must become an ISFP. And pronto.

    Good luck. May the force be with ya.

    You'll need it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bananatrombones View Post
    Grow your hair long; start writing poetry. Paint abstract paintings (ask her to model, dressed as a rabbit); learn the banjo and sing spirituals really fast. Become an athiest and start quoting Dawkins at every opportunity. Tell her you've become a pacifist and have a copy of Wind in the Willows (open, strategically, of course) placed in the bathroom.

    Paint your toe-nails black and wear flip-flops! This might work, without any of the above.

    In short you must become an ISFP. And pronto.

    Good luck. May the force be with ya.

    You'll need it.


    I'm DEFINITLEY going with the first action, our meeting is tomorrow. Surprisingly though, she has not tried to contact me since the later half of last week! Maybe she has finally gotten the hint.... or maybe she didn't like me in the first place and she was just emotionally unstable/chemically unbalanced?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Babylon Candle View Post
    d@ve. the key is to wait for the ENXX people to come after you
    .... there is no way you could ever "strategically" ensnare them... so just relax

    ie: if that ENFP really wanted to get to together with you, she'd actaully arrange it/ask etc
    Amargith! If this is true, why did you not tell me! Is it true that I have no chance at all?

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