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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    and then I'm sorry, you'll just have to be patient while we collect data
    And for the sake of ISTJs' mental health, please be quick about it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Habba View Post
    And for the sake of ISTJs' mental health, please be quick about it.
    YES! How long does that take?! It's ruthless torture for us ISTJ's!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Habba View Post
    And for the sake of ISTJs' mental health, please be quick about it.
    That means cranking up the intensity, and you guys really really don't react well to that either, so it's up to you what you prefer

    Edit: dave, seriously... you guys get how long to observe and make up your mind? Can you blame us for wanting the same amount of time to get to know you a bit before we decide on such an important thing?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    Edit: Habba, also realize that we're sensotards most of the time (at least I am). I'm oblivious that people stare at me, unless I have reason to notice and then I can see it even if they're trying to hide it. But I rarely have a reason to do so. People are gonna stare at me anyways, coz I'm an oddball..why waste energy on noticing such trivial things?


    Never had a problem with that, but maybe that's a cultural thing. Sometimes it is true, that you just see a guy as a friend, coz frankly..the chemistry just aint there. Also happened for me, that the chemistry was there and he was a great guy..but something was off. As much as I wouldn't mind sleeping with him, I didn't see a future with him (differences on values, basic incompatibility etc). And with my current boyfriend, I at first didn't have chemistry the first moment I met him, till he started talking...I fell head over heels.

    Your scenario puts us at a disatvantage... you guys are already way ahead of us, as you've been observing. The moment you actually make 'contact' is the moment we start our deliberation process..and then I'm sorry, you'll just have to be patient while we collect data
    I didn't collect data. I went on a hunch whether that is good or bad. I still think it is right, darn Ni

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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    That means cranking up the intensity, and you guys really really don't react well to that either, so it's up to you what you prefer
    What?
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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    What?
    It means probing you pretty deeply in a short amount of time, creating a very tight bond, very intense. Again, this is how I do it..not sure about other ENFP's. It has as a side-effect that it can make you pretty intoxicated though...
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    I wouldn't mind being probed by an ENFP! But the ENFP I was chasing didn't probe me at all. [Maybe she was an INFP?! ]She just wrote me off without giving me a chance. I had to do all that work finding things out about her too! And it was all a waste of time!
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    Quote Originally Posted by d@v3 View Post
    I wouldn't mind being probed by an ENFP! But the ENFP I was chasing didn't probe me at all. [Maybe she was an INFP?! ]She just wrote me off without giving me a chance. I had to do all that work finding things out about her too! And it was all a waste of time!
    How do you know she didn't probe you? If she didn't do it intensely, she probably just let it happen naturally. Also, as I recall, she wasn't really open to a new relationship (assuming she told the truth). It would take a pretty powerful connection she couldn't ignore to override that.
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    Yes but what exactly does "open to a relationship" mean? Is there a door I don't know about? Is it locked? Perhaps I should be working on my lockpicking skills?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Amargith View Post
    How do you know she didn't probe you? If she didn't do it intensely, she probably just let it happen naturally. Also, as I recall, she wasn't really open to a new relationship (assuming she told the truth). It would take a pretty powerful connection she couldn't ignore to override that.
    I think she wasn't interested enough to make a probing. She never initiated a txting conversation, but she always kept them up. I think that she just welcomed a friendly chatting partner, but wasn't interested to probe for more. A good guess?

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