I knew a few ISTJs who wouldn't get over a grudge against someone until they were dead.Any other IS_J having problems letting go of past things?
Very true but I prefer to think my past never existed. Or that child I used to be was a completely different person who died a long time ago. I hate revisiting my past, it makes me bitter and dissappointed in myself.The child you were yesterday and the person you were yesterday are all a part of who you are today - they're not "dead". To deny the past is to deny a large part of who you are.