EDIT: By the way, I think this topic is rather silly. Does one expect every ISFJ to have a halo and little wings, too? Of course ISFJs can act selfish.
This is why I don't even read fucking MBTI threads anymore.
Asking specific questions about implied contingencies of fundamental processes is not very impressive. An entire thread is humiliating. Like there's some enormous lot of information to squabble over to figure these things out.
It takes one reply and the thread is fucking over. Why do these things always go on for pages and pages?
Lickels your girlfriend really doesn't sound like an ISFJ.
Sounds more like ESFJ.
*shrug* I dunno what to say, Shes VERY J, shes very F, shes very S and other than talking to me, shes EXTREMELY quiet. Really the ideal wallflower, even at parties, shes quiet. She has an huge need for alone time and often turns her friends down to sit and read alone in her room.