http://www.typologycentral.com/forum...tml#post424644 <------- from this post
Okay....so, if you would be so kind to oblige and add to this post (infjs and fellow posters).....
It seems a common theme to be totally confused by the ISTJ in your life that you are working to emotionally attach/bond with........that their words and actions do not match.
Please give us examples.........and if the ISTJ's on the board would be so kind please HELP us out here, as it seems you are giving us mixed signals.
(do they even realize they are doing that?)