So we all think about guardians (negativelly speaking) that they are judgmental, rigid, narrow-minded, "i am right and you are wrong", over-organized pain-in-asses, BUT... what about guardians who dont act that way so overwhelmingly (i mean all 4 types). You know, they arent so judgemental, they dont preach you, and only time to time laugh and say "how could you live in such a mess lol", so they arent offensive at all. Do you know such SJs, and what are they like? Whats good and whats wrong about these guardians, who perhaps are your coworkers, or classmates? I wonder because I think that a big deal of my classroom are guardinas, but only a few of them are such pain-in-ass, the rest are pretty ok. So, how do you see that? What is like to be a "non-judgemental" guardian?