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    Default non pain-in-ass guardians

    So we all think about guardians (negativelly speaking) that they are judgmental, rigid, narrow-minded, "i am right and you are wrong", over-organized pain-in-asses, BUT... what about guardians who dont act that way so overwhelmingly (i mean all 4 types). You know, they arent so judgemental, they dont preach you, and only time to time laugh and say "how could you live in such a mess lol", so they arent offensive at all. Do you know such SJs, and what are they like? Whats good and whats wrong about these guardians, who perhaps are your coworkers, or classmates? I wonder because I think that a big deal of my classroom are guardinas, but only a few of them are such pain-in-ass, the rest are pretty ok. So, how do you see that? What is like to be a "non-judgemental" guardian?

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    You kidding? We like being a pain in the rear to friends. Sometimes they get the humor...sometimes they just think we're a pain.
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    You can't spell "justice" without ISTJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cimarron View Post
    You kidding?
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    I think it looks like that cat might actually make it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ajblaise View Post
    I think it looks like that cat might actually make it.
    I looked in the ship picture for the cat for a good 5 minutes!!

    Damn it. I need to go to sleep.
    My cold, snide, intellectual life is just a veneer, behind which lies the plywood of loneliness.

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    OP, how are we supposed to judge whether or not we're judgmental?
    You can't spell "justice" without ISTJ.

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    It's hard not to be a pain. I was talking to a girl yesterday, and without realizing it, I commented about her necklace, but only right after I told her, "move your hair out of your face, it's in front of your eyes."

    You should see me when I'm actually happy. When I get excited, I become *gasp* charismatic, actually very much so. All of the ISTJ traits become used for good, and it's interesting watching how I act. Our traits aren't necessarily bad. It's just a lot of people see us using them in bad ways.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cimarron View Post
    OP, how are we supposed to judge whether or not we're judgmental?
    Violently interrogate all your friends and co-workers.

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    There's a couple of xSFJs that aren't so rigid and I consider friends, already written about them though so... yeah.

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