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    Default ESFJ Females; what qualities do you admire/seek in a partner?

    I find myself drawn to you and hence, I'm curious.


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    Me too! Please share.

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    My wife is ESFJ, I wonder if we're naturally drawn to them?

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    I know an ISFP (female)/ESFJ (male) couple, just to add to the fire
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    Nice!

    The only woman I've ever truly loved was ESFJ (as were also most of my crushes). When we talked, we ended up both laughing so hard my sides hurt by the end. She loved my wacky humour and I loved her sense of humour and wonderful big heart among other qualities.

    xNFJs are drawn to me for some reason but ESFJ is where it's at for me.

    If only one would show show up here... (EDIT: I mean show up to answer my original post... we won't jump on and drag you back to our caves... but we may be sorely tempted)

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    Haha, I liked your post before the edit.

    I reckon your best chance would be to just show off your cognitive processes, our CP's are matched up exactly with theirs except we flow out where they flow in and vice versa. So just be yourself, I reckon the ISFP type is naturally quite attractive to them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mo_(operalover) View Post
    Nice!

    The only woman I've ever truly loved was ESFJ (as were also most of my crushes). When we talked, we ended up both laughing so hard my sides hurt by the end. She loved my wacky humour and I loved her sense of humour and wonderful big heart among other qualities.

    xNFJs are drawn to me for some reason but ESFJ is where it's at for me.

    If only one would show show up here... (EDIT: I mean show up to answer my original post... we won't jump on and drag you back to our caves... but we may be sorely tempted)

    I've heard ISFP+ESFJ and ISFJ+ENFJ relationships described as being One Giant Feeling, thanks to their being dominant Fe and our being dominant Fi.

    I have an ENFJ husband (One Giant Feeling -- whooohoo!), but I love ESFJs too. I have a couple of friends who seem to be of that type, and they really know how to make me feel loved and appreciated. I am amazed at how much they remember of what I've told them in the past, and how attentive they are not only to my physical comfort, but every detail of what I do and say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sarah View Post
    I am amazed at how much they remember of what I've told them in the past
    Sometimes not a good thing when it comes to arguments...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Quinlan View Post
    My wife is ESFJ, I wonder if we're naturally drawn to them?
    My wife is ESFJ too! Maybe we are, we tend to balance each other out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wolfy View Post
    My wife is ESFJ too! Maybe we are, we tend to balance each other out.
    Mirror relations between psychological ("personality") types

    Anything like that?

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