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[ISTJ] How to make an ISTJ swoon

moonbaby

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*borrowed from: How to woo an ENTJ down in the relationship area

Okay, we are ready..........tell us, tell us! :smile:
 

Edgar

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Give him/her a wedding ring.
 

moonbaby

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well, he had the promise and that didnt seem to work. perhaps you mean there has to be a complication free situation..........
 

RiderOnTheStorm

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Opt to go to the dollar movies instead of the expensive theater for a first date. xD

I speak from experience :yes:
 

A Schnitzel

WTF is this dude saying?
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Do what he expects you to do that fits within his perception of you.
 

Cimarron

IRL is not real
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...I'm coming up short. :jew: I'll think on it.
 

BerberElla

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Close all the windows in the house and leave the gas on, eventually the fumes should make him swoon and pass out.
 

Valiant

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*borrowed from: How to woo an ENTJ down in the relationship area

Okay, we are ready..........tell us, tell us! :smile:

Show them your collection of knives. Polished, in order, sharpened, one for every occasion! :jew:
 

swordpath

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Acts of service. Shows you care, usually involves premeditative thought and therefore is a concrete display of your interest.


Spaghetti is my favorite dish, btw. :cheese:
 

oasispaw

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if female, talk to her about kitchen items such as le creuset cookware and santoku knives.
 

Jack Flak

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Has anyone said "Ask them to do your taxes because they're great at understanding that stuff and very trustworthy."
 

Recoleta

No me digas, che!
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if female, talk to her about kitchen items such as le creuset cookware and santoku knives.

Lol...that totally would not work on me. I have no idea that signifigance of either of those brands. Truthfully, the only reason I would even bother having a wedding would be for the sole purpose of getting other people to buy me all my kitchen supplies.

FTR, I would be happy with Cutco ;)

Has anyone said "Ask them to do your taxes because they're great at understanding that stuff and very trustworthy."

Ha...also not me! Two days before taxes are due I'm usually like, "Subract line 5b from 16a...blah...blah...blah...WTF?" "Crap, where is form 1099R!?" :huh:


Anyway, on a serious note...what really makes me swoon is people who are genuine. What I watch is how people treat others who are in service industries. If a guy I am out with treats the waiter/waitress badly or is a cheapskate that is definitely not a good sign. A lot could be said for how someone treats a perfect stranger.

Something that I find very attractive is a guy that keeps his word. It's really pretty simple. Call when you say you will, and follow through with things. I don't think that's too much to ask.

One last thing that makes me swoon is little thoughful acts of service...kinda along the lines of what Beat said.
 

Bella

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The very, very basics:

Don't be late.
Don't be loud.
Have zero flakiness.
 

Anja

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Bake his favorite cookies, preferably demonstrating plenty of blood, sweat and tears in the process, and then gush about what a good job he did mowing the lawn.

He'll be forever at your service. :D
 

Bella

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You know Anja, I think you should write a manual for woman who love or are trying to woo ISTJ's, and sell it here. moonbaby, I'm sure, will love an autographed copy.

(then again, apart from her, it might be a dying market):coffee:
 

Edgar

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Close all the windows in the house and leave the gas on, eventually the fumes should make him swoon and pass out.

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Your ideas are intriguing and I wish to subscribe to your newsletter.
 

Mondo

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Ask the ISTJ to do your paperwork.
 

soleil

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1) Be on time.
2) Be on time.
3) Be on time.
4) Be on time.
5) Be on time.



:D
 

Edgar

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Has anyone said "Ask them to do your taxes because they're great at understanding that stuff and very trustworthy."

My favorite ISTJ trait is flaunting loyalty in the face of reason.

If I ever end up as a dictator under the siege by an overwhelming rebel army, I want to be surrounded by ISTJ lieutenants.
 
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