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[SJ] SJs & sex

Little Linguist

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People, you do realize none of the SJs have said anything - see *this* is how SJs stay in power. They let other people have at it, and pull the strings behind the scenes. :D :devil:
 

illume

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Mismatched libido.... I have heard this a lot over the years... I am almost 50 years old so I am probably older than many of you. I have known a lot of people over the years and I have heard this many times (no doubt it was not from an SJ) and experienced it myself!!
 

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Pfft - I could say something, but I will do something that doesn't happen very often - and restrain myself. :devil:

When sex in your marriage gets dull (and it will, no matter what) I hope you know what to do. Cause I didn't. We (and our marriage) suffered.
 

FDG

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When sex in your marriage gets dull (and it will, no matter what) I hope you know what to do. Cause I didn't. We (and our marriage) suffered.

Wow, the wave of pessimism hit me from the other side of the ocean:D
 

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In other words, you were bad in bed.

I've never interacted with you much, but I've read plenty of your posts in the past.

I find you insufferably arrogant and fairly ignorant about real life. A deadly combination.
 

Little Linguist

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When sex in your marriage gets dull (and it will, no matter what) I hope you know what to do. Cause I didn't. We (and our marriage) suffered.

Dude, no offense. But :wtf:? I agree with Peguy, and if people go around searching for another woman just because 'sex gets dull,' well shame on you for your lack of creativity. I think there are *definitely* other factors involved. Only a cowardly man would not have the balls to come up to his wife and discuss the matter and instead go and cheat on her.

I'm not referring to you if that were the case, I'm just saying in general. I just don't get it. If you're (you general, not you specific) are not open to your husband/wife about sex, then who *can* you be open about it to???? :shock:
 

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I've never interacted with you much, but I've read plenty of your posts in the past.

I find you insufferably arrogant and fairly ignorant about real life. A deadly combination.

MacGuffin, may I ask, did you get married very young?
 

MacGuffin

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Dude, no offense. But :wtf:? I agree with Peguy, and if people go around searching for another woman just because 'sex gets dull,' well shame on you for your lack of creativity. I think there are *definitely* other factors involved. Only a cowardly man would not have the balls to come up to his wife and discuss the matter and instead go and cheat on her.

I'm not referring to you if that were the case, I'm just saying in general. I just don't get it. If you're (you general, not you specific) are not open to your husband/wife about sex, then who *can* you be open about it to???? :shock:
When did I say anything about cheating?

It falls on both parties to be GGG.
 
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I've never interacted with you much, but I've read plenty of your posts in the past.

I find you insufferably arrogant and fairly ignorant about real life. A deadly combination.

Hmmmn....if I recall, you were the one who denounced other people as "boring" for simply having a different approach to sex then you. Perhaps you yourself need to get off your high horse.
 

Little Linguist

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Where's your short term memory? Post #65.

You even quoted it!

I didn't read that - in speed reading my eyes are trained to look over superfluous information, but I guess it wasn't then...

Besides, I'm a sensotard, so give me a break. :D
 

Little Linguist

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Well one thing you have to admit, our convo brought a shit load of people to the SJ forum :D Advertising!
 

MacGuffin

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Hmmmn....if I recall, you were the one who denounced other people as "boring" for simply having a different approach to sex then you. Perhaps you yourself need to get off your high horse.

Are you boring?

I'm sorry, but having no imagination when it comes to sex (conservative) is boring.

Boring is boring.

Do boring people think of themselves as boring? Probably not.

I doubt you can find me one sexually imaginative person that wouldn't find a sexually conservative person boring.

Yeah, I'm sure that adds to it. I think all in all it's probably better to get married later. For a lot of people at least, I realize not for all.

I'd agree to that.

Marrying early isn't for everyone. Hardly anyone, in fact.

I didn't read that - in speed reading my eyes are trained to look over superfluous information, but I guess it wasn't then...

Besides, I'm a sensotard, so give me a break. :D

Pfft! I answer your question and you ignore it! :cry:
 

Little Linguist

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Are you boring?

I'm sorry, but having no imagination when it comes to sex (conservative) is boring.

Boring is boring.

Do boring people think of themselves as boring? Probably not.

I doubt you can find me one sexually imaginative person that wouldn't find a sexually conservative person boring.



I'd agree to that.

Marrying early isn't for everyone. Hardly anyone, in fact.



Pfft! I answer your question and you ignore it! :cry:

I didn't ignore it. I went to the site, and I searched for ggg and it said it couldn't find it. Sooooo!!!!!!
 

Little Linguist

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Well, shit, I ain't boring - if anything I'm TMTH!!! Sooooooooo!!!! No worries in that department. So you just take your little convo over ----> there and let me teach you how to be a real drama king!!!! :D
 
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