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    Quote Originally Posted by quietgirl View Post
    Without revealing too much info, my SJ has a higher sex drive than previous boyfriends. I have no complaints!
    My experience, now with a second ISTJ male, has been quite satisfying
    and even wonderful. "Best kept secret", perhaps?
    Or just the right combination of letters.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by littledarling View Post
    Isn't it obvious?
    Not at all . Explain.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Beat View Post
    Not at all . Explain.



    Hahahahaha.

    Really?
    Rain makes applesauce

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    No. :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella View Post
    ajblaise...I wasn't being nasty....never to you, my sweetieangeldelight.
    You STJs sure have a funny way of showing it when you aren't being nasty. Maybe this has something to do with why people think you have ice for blood?

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    Quote Originally Posted by simulatedworld View Post
    You STJs sure have a funny way of showing it when you aren't being nasty. Maybe this has something to do with why people think you have ice for blood?
    With STJs it's pretty much, you get what you give. So be nice, my friend.

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    I'm nice.

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    I'm trying to "unlock" mine. She's so reserved, and defers to me all the time. Which is fine when I'm in super-predator mode, but other times I'm looking for a little assertiveness on her part to make it less one sided.

    It's very bizarre because when it comes to anything but sex she's very assertive and self-confident. Oh well, keep plugging away I suppose.



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    ^What about non-sexual affection?

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    Hey, another NON-ISFJ to add yet another two cents! hah
    Well, my boyfriend is an ISFJ...at first he put on this really neat act of being buttoned-up and conservative, and not really interested sex. I think he had himself convinced too, what with a lack of experience. Once he got comfortable with me though, and was secure with the fact that I wanted him to "fulfill his duties"...oh boy! hahaha
    He's just devilish, and the fact that he can be so generous is such a bonus. Funny thing...he definitely would not be comfortable with discussing it with anybody apart from myself, and that he doesn't want me discussing it with anybody I know, either!
    So by my limited knowledge of the situation, I'd say SJs cultivate a sexually conservative facade, but once you get them behind closed doors, there can be some "serving joyfully" alright.

    With the whole nurturing side of an ISFJ coming out, the experience is rich and filled with intimacy that, personally, assures a connection of closeness in that moment. Knowing that the person you're sleeping with is willing to have sex with you automatically sets a strong sense of trust and bond.
    Interesting and useful insight into the machinations of your type. hm.

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