Has there been a thread about INTJ women?
Based on my real life experience (which might not be worth much) they seem vastly different to me than the INTJ men I know. For starters, they have a lot more friendliness, courtesy and compassion. They can tolerate "incompetent idiots" a lot better without walking out of a room, too.
Do I just know some really immature, unhealthy INTJ males, or does there tend to be significant difference between male and female INTJ's in your experience?