I should embelish....I shut down out of fear of being parasitic. I can size people up in a nanosecond. Flaws and triumphs...maybe he finds jems in what I would never consider "jewely"...or dont want to dig through the "baggage". (its dirty business) I refuse to flaunt my wealth...I am arrogant in a very non-arrogant, covert way. Am I more of a liar? I dont want to 'lie" to get my primal needs met (but still desire to have them met).....he has no problem with knowing the short-term scenario will ultimately fail.