I think they do best if they just allow their natural shine to shine. Like in the Shining. ;-)
Maybe add a bit of oil of clove when drilling into peoples teeth.
I have a natural admiration for ENTJ women to the point of being sexual even without seeing how they look; I mostly only get off-put by ENTJs (both men and women) when they go on a revenge/stomp down on people (not just me just when they do it to people in general). They don't seem to always realize when they go overboard on people (both in length of time and intensity); to put it lightly.
My advice: hold back on the discipline/punishment as it harms you more than the enemy when you go overboard (whereas some other types seem to be able to get away with this with impunity). For whatever reason, when they do that there is that uneasy feeling...which is hard to pinpoint...as when one would imagine one gets when sleeping with a cannibal.