ENTJs are freakin awesome. I like you how you are. Just please stay open to other's viewpoints and things will be just fine.
If someone can't handle who you really are, then they won't like you in the long run. If you put on a mask, they will like the mask and not who you really are. Just remember that. You can be nice, but don't be fake.
But seriously. You guys are awesome as is.