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    @.~*virinaĉo*~.@ Totenkindly's Avatar
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    Quote Originally Posted by Owl View Post
    Thought I'd just update the thread with the new development. Spoke to her yesterday, (more explicit DTR), and found out that she'd spoken to the pastor! Total relief. We're both on (more) solid ground, and oversight's involved. Thanks y'all for taking the time to help.
    Cool beans, glad the situation is changing positively for you.

    BW, I'll respond to your last post soon(ish).
    Oh, so the fun continues!
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    “Pleasure to me is wonder—the unexplored, the unexpected, the thing that is hidden and the changeless thing that lurks behind superficial mutability. To trace the remote in the immediate; the eternal in the ephemeral; the past in the present; the infinite in the finite; these are to me the springs of delight and beauty.” ~ H.P. Lovecraft

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    Quote Originally Posted by INTJMom View Post
    This is not the way life was meant to be lived. I hope you realize that while this might be what works for you, this is not what works for everyone else, nor was it meant to. We are not like animals in the animal shelter meant to live out our lives in cages. I just hope you're not prescribing this way of life for everyone. It has been shown in many studies done with babies that humans need contact with each other in order to thrive.



    I agree that T women are superior to F women.
    My method is the path to true freedom. This way, you can decide how you want to live your life because you remain in control. Otherwise, you are a slave to your passions. If you want to be free, tame the passions as much as possible.
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    I don't wanna be a slave to a worthless existence though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lucifer View Post

    As for the actual topic;

    woman = erotic
    I agree.
    My cold, snide, intellectual life is just a veneer, behind which lies the plywood of loneliness.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jack Flak View Post
    I don't wanna be a slave to a worthless existence though.

    "You die at the end. Didn't anyone tell you?" --Doug Stanhope
    You seem to be implying that a life without passion is more or less 'worthless' as that would be drab. Not so, if you are in control of your passions, you will have less of them than otherwise, but still more than enough to have some color to your life.
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    I've seen things you wouldn't believe. Attack ships on fire off the shoulder of Orion. I watched C-beams glitter in the dark near the Tannhauser gate. All those moments will be lost in time, like tears in rain.

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    Time to die.

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    romantic idealist in me
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    Ask an NF.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Owl View Post
    I met a girl nearly a month ago, and I'm quite taken with her. We get along superbly, getting lost in conversations that last for hours. We've similar interests, (intellectual and otherwise), backgrounds, and we're of the same faith. (very rare). I know she's interested in me, but we're not at a point where we can progress past friendship. (At the moment, this is strictly verboten). We've been open to one another about how we feel about the relationship, and we've agreed to 'put the breaks on;' e.g., we'll only meet in groups.

    Recently, we went to the symphony with a group of friends. She distributed the tickets, and, to my delight, she put us together. (I don't know if this was intentional or not, but I did notice her scrutinizing the tickets before she handed them out. Also, the rest of the group went ahead of me at the theatre as I spoke to an usher, and I found her sitting in my seat when I finally caught up.) Near the end of the symphony, she adjusted her position, crossed her legs, and her foot ended up just barely resting against my calf--making it impossible for me to pay attention to the music. I certainly didn't want to recoil at her touch, and she let her foot dally there long enough to let me know that she certainly wasn't scared of me. I had to leave before the symphony was over to go to work, and I've neither seen nor spoken to her since.

    What am I supposed to do? Were her actions at the symphony intentional? We're supposed to be taking it slow. I'm not sure if her actions are merely friendly, or if she's signaling that she's interested in being more than just friends. What's she thinking?

    I'm going insane. Any insight would be appreciated.
    Go for it...before she gets bored.
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