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    I do not know how you feeeeeeeeelll, but I must say those NF fellows are really praying on our endurance.

    I just saw them posting a similar thread to this in their private forum and guess what ? I couldnt answer. Didnt they just do that intentionally ?!

    I must say I rather loose a leg before pairing with one of those jerks. What's your opinion ?
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    I like 'em. I think you're afraid you'll lose yourself and become emo with one of them
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    too late
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    NFs are complimentary for NTs. I know most rationals are looking for mindmates, but an NF is a better bet for getting an NT out of their shell.

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    I could definitely go for an NFJ male. I really like the NFs I know.

    I don't think the NFP male is a good compliment for the NTJ female. It makes gender roles confusing and adds what I see as an unnecessary obstacle to a healthy relationship. At least, that's my observation from my interaction with NFP males.

    I'd prefer an xNxJ male of some sort, or perhaps an ISTJ male.
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    Heh, I have the opposite thing:

    NFP males, xNxP males and ISTP rather than ISTJ. Not like I exclude the Js, though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Uytuun View Post
    Heh, I have the opposite thing:

    NFP males, xNxP males and ISTP rather than ISTJ. Not like I exclude the Js, though.
    I think my bias is perhaps because of my xNFP males that I know (dad, brother, BFF, close friend) they all have zero J within them. They are difficult to do things with when one is a J who likes to plan and find closure. This makes what should be fun relaxing stressful for me.

    Maybe an NFp for my NTJ femaleness. I'd have to see it IRL and think it over.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Usehername View Post
    I think my bias is perhaps because of my xNFP males that I know (dad, brother, BFF, close friend) they all have zero J within them. They are difficult to do things with when one is a J who likes to plan and find closure. This makes what should be fun relaxing stressful for me.
    That makes sense.

    I'm a P... and it drives me crazy with my P friends because NOTHING gets done at all. (So I end up having to make the decisions. Ugh.) In that case, closure for me is the desire to just be able to move forward and/or not waste our time. I know it'd be worse for a J.

    Maybe an NFp for my NTJ femaleness. I'd have to see it IRL and think it over.
    There are general patterns that seem to mesh better, but yes, overall it seems to be a "case by case" scenario, people are unique enough to make it worth checking things out.
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    Eh, great friends, colleagues, relatives... couldn't live with one though. Much less marry one. Just can't imagine how it'd work. An SF, maybe... but...

    Someone mention a shell? Could I be any further out of mine?
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