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    INFJ's are awesome. Hard to crack. But so delightful and stubborn and complex. Very attractive in their inner coherence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by substitute View Post
    Interesting, that's not my experience of NF's... usually I tend to feel like they're hurrying me to open up, and take it as a kind of affront if I don't... there's a feeling that their like, respect etc of me is dependent on me opening up within an expected time frame, which makes me feel that the whole thing is so obviously conditional on my becoming their vision of what I should be. It creates a feeling of great insecurity for me that's not pleasant, relaxing or supportive at all.
    Yeah, I've totally had this experience, but also ceecee's. Gotta get the right NF. The more insistent and accusatory the NF, the greater the odds I'd clam up, feel bad about it, then resent the probing.
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    Yes, NF's do eye us over. For some of them vs some of us, we provide a variety of different security measures, which of course they may not admit too, that they need/crave/instictually strive for.

    Make no mistake, we eye them over in return

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    I love NFs, but get annoyed when it's their turn to talk and they take a deep breath to collect their thoughts for what seems like 15 minutes. I like what they have to say, though.

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    NFs smell like pooh

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    Quote Originally Posted by sakuraba View Post
    NFs smell like pooh
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    For the only NF I dated, it seemed that about the time when the shell was cracked is when the interest started to wane on her part and the relationship started to end.


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    I married an INFJ. Our relationship seems very natural to me. I'm a dominant intuitive, and I think for me what is most important is to connect with another person's N. The T/F dynamic certainly helps the relationship, but I see the common N being most important to me. I'm not sure if INTP's or ENTJ's would see things differently.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ceecee View Post
    I am an NT with an NF and I agree with this. Not some much coming out of my shell as he gave me the ability to open up and at my own pace.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinister Scribe View Post
    I don't know if I'd date well, but I would avoid dating an INTP just because I've seen the INTP/INTJ pairing work out very disastrously before.
    yes its a very subtle but a very basic diff and in hindsight, INTP/INTJ interaction isn't as smooth as NT-NT interaction would seem to inevitably be cause of the diff of a leading Ti versus a leading Ni coupled with the P versus J difference. Though balanced and mature ppl should theoretically, it seems, be a whole different deal.
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    I'm really attracted to a lot of NF's. There's something there that ... I don't know... it's kinda magical. It's a reverse gendered dichotomy that I need, I think.
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